I understand why people say it and that it is not malicious, but I wish people would stop saying, “I hope we can be great friends!!!” Whenever I offer to be mutuals. I KNOW it is not done in ill spirit, but as someone who is on the Aplatonic spectrum i always feel like my personal space is invaded a bit when people expect to be my friend immediately. I do not know you well yet, I am uncomfortable being viewed as one without my agreement, can we PLEASE just chill first we don’t need to be friends immediately💔









