#apoagender

[abnormal-lee]

i never really understood when people say they just knew that they were (gender identity) or felt it deep down or finally found a way to present themselves that felt Right. i always thought that i was secretly being transphobic and i need to get rid of my preexisting biases and that i am a horrible person that disrespects people even when i do anything i can to Not Be. but like i think its cuz i never really understood gender as a concept. i never felt dysphoria or euphoria due to my self presentation/expression. like that is just a construct to me?? idk i don’t make the rules

[dragonpride17]

Can you make a term for being apogender (or vacugender) and apagender (or cassgender)

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apoagender - when one is not only genderless, but entirely removed from the concept of gender, as well as being apathetic towards what gender one comes across as; being both apogender and apagender

cassvacugender - the feeling that gender as a concept doesn't apply to one, and that one's gender identity is unimportant; being both vacugender and cassgender

here u go! 2 terms cause the definitions are slightly different from each other

[abnormal-lee]

more with my apoagender stuff but i never really felt that i had a Self or a Defined Me that i saw myself as. i like.. never felt that i have any identity to tether myself to (confusing gender AND sexuality AND sense of self). or any skill. i just felt like Me, the probably existing entity that is kind of okay but definitely below average at a handful of things. like idk man. whatever

[snoodlepride]

Changed my hair again. ;3 (If your thinking about Tilda Swinton you’d be correct) [They/Them, Aporagender, Nonbinary.]