Advice Posts: APRIL REQUESTS
Hi there guys, I’m making this post with a heavy heart, because it’s something I didn’t want to do. I love helping you all, I truly, honestly do. If i can be your safe space, your agony aunt, the random person you can go to as a sounding board- I am all for that. However... whenever I see my blog lately- it’s all I see. Even amongst all the fan art and shitposting I do- the advice asks are what pop out to me. My brain is just wired to look at that (problems and how to assist) first... And it’s hurting me. Helping people is something that I’ve studied to do, worked/volunteered in the field and one day will return to doing as a profession, Tumblr is a place that I go to to escape all of that; but now when I go to my blog all I see are my “clients” (even though the advice I give on here is generic and not really any specific forms of psychological treatment) and it’s rather overwhelming.
THIS DOES NOT MEAN I DON’T WANT YOU SENDING IN ADVICE ASKS- SEND THEM IN, I’M HAPPY TO HELP, SINCERELY.
What this does mean is that I’m asking please send them OFF-ANON so I can respond to you privately. That way I can still help you, but in turn you’re also helping me. I won’t be looking at your username, I won’t be going to your blog and looking up things to remember you by- you will still be that faceless Nonny Chan to me. Plus once I’ve sent the reply there’s no way for me to trace back who sent what. Trust me darlings, your privacy is important and I won’t go around abusing it. So, I am sorry to ask this of you- I really thought that I would be able to handle it but alas with all that’s going on in my real life, seeing my Tumblr almost replicate that is a little too much for me to bear. Please note from today, any Anon advice asks will be deleted, but all those sent from off-anon will be answered (as promptly as I can!) All other Anon (requests, random shitposting, reviews, greetings etc) are all still fine and heartily welcomed.
