#areluctantintimation

[redfingerfish]

areluctantintimation replied to your post “I saw one of the blogs im following is wanting to delete because no...”

-hugs?-

Hugs are awesome. -hugs-

[inkyshark]

areluctantintimation replied

D: I hope not

I hope not too. I went back to the doctor and she said that it'd be a lot more prominent/noticeable. As in even touching the area would hurt. So it must be just some general soreness. I've a follow up appointment on Friday... We'll see then.

[inkyshark]

puppymant replied 

oh wow that looks good (• .̮ • 人)

That's a mameshiba... But thank you! XD (◕ᴥ◕し)

areluctantintimation replied 

Das cute.

Thank you. :D

theubersheep replied 

Of course the boys would be a background. <3

You shush your face. It's my computer screen background and I was taking the image in a different light for Pie. =///3///=

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areluctantintimation replied to your post “hi i'm max and im kinda scared to come off on anon right now, but i...”

Same here, friend. Glad to know you were finally able to get it done, especially after the past year.

Thank you.

And to answer your question about how to get gender confirmation surgeries paid for without putting individuals in debt, it should come out of insurance. Virtually all procedures (hormone replacement therapy, gynomastia surgeries, breast reconstruction, orchiectomy, genital reconstruction, etc) are covered for other reasons already. There is no reason other than bias of the community for them not to be. The trans population, while rather prominent on tumblr, is actually a pretty tiny portion of the general population. The populous that wishes to pursue ALL surgical avenues is even smaller. So it's not a huge financial investment for them. Yes, they have to pay money. But it's a one time thing that would probably be cheaper than a lifetime of antidepressants. 

[redfingerfish]

areluctantintimation answered your question “i’m bored, send me messages?”

Hi.

Hello. How's things? :D

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areluctantintimation replied to your post “Why the fuck am I writing a song I can’t even sing”

So's I can make it!

...let me go through at least a few dozen drafts before I go showing it off first. 

I don't want to make anyone laugh too hard.

[redfingerfish]

areluctantintimation answered your question “I somehow have 400 followers. How did this happen? Are most of you...”

Girl, most of us are probably Islanders and their damn alts.

If 120 of them are Lythar I'mma beat him friendly-like with a bag of cotton balls. P:

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areluctantintimation replied to your post:Filed a formal complaint with the Insurance...

When are you expected to get a reply back?

"Within thirty days" it says. But they should be updating me on the situation as it progresses, or at least, that's what it says if you file online.