making bets w ppl as an aroace…
me and my cousin: “if you have no kids by the time yr 30 i’ll give you $50” HELL YEAH eaaasy money😈
me and my best friends mom: “if you don’t get into a relationship by the time yr 30 [… terms not yet agreed on]” light WORK. no reaction…🥱🥱
telling ppl I’m abstaining from relationships and sex then when they counter w the usual “hmm but what if in the future” (as they do) i counter w MY usual “do you wanna bet?”😋
ppl who abstain from sex whatever the word is starts w a c that i know but rn the only thing coming to mind is servitile spelled w a C which i know is way wrong bc i jnow that word. at least i thought i did but auto correct is saying its not a word which wtf. wth. swear on my life servitile is a word. wth. like someone being servitile. cervitile??? SERVILE. i could have fucking SWORN that mf was spelled w a T. wtf.
i would look up the word but i really don’t care to rn so i’ll come back to that
anyway way off topic todays aroace lesson is to always scam ppl. you don’t owe anyone anything; you don’t have to come out- lie your way oit of everything if you want🤷
all of my current friends just have an Understanding TM thst i don’t do relationships. half of them think i’m gay. actually probably most of them?? not my problem bc at the end of the day my best friend and my cousin have told multiple ppl that “no, no [name] doesn’t do that. y’know. date, romance. no😂” and to be loved is to be known with no explanation needed
