Wildebrams for that 001 ship meme!
001 | send me a ship and I will tell you:
when I started shipping it if I did:
I had quit ‘Glee’ after … well, after 'I Do’ and then officially after 'Shooting Star’ – I was done before that (since sometime in Season 3 – I kept trying to give the show a chance for a while…) but those episodes marked my official stopping point.
… then I saw a photoset of Kitty & Artie from the promo of 'Love, Love, Love’ and I was immediately hit with a rush of butterflies and my exact words were: 'oh no… OH NO. NO. THIS IS SO ADORABLE – WHY? I WAS DONE WITH THIS SHOW. IT WAS OVER. I WAS FREE. WHY IS THIS HAPPENING TO ME?’
I convinced myself that, since I was watching one episode of Season Five anyway – for obvious reasons – I’d see what this episode was about. I figured that it was just cute out-of-context and that 'Glee’ was just going to strike out with this pairing, as they had with the others… obviously that didn’t happen so here we are.
my thoughts:
Such a wonderful ship, they really were. It surprises me to this day that they got one ship so right, even for a little while. I think the biggest compliment is that Kitty & Artie got me to rewatch this show, not once but twice, and I do not regret it.
What makes me happy about them:
Kitty & Artie fit so well together, they do. One of the few ships on 'Glee’ that did. What’s so amazing about them is how happy they make one another and how completely believable it was despite the fact that they didn’t have the focus the other couples had. Very simply put, they make each other happy.
Artie softened her heart a lot, you could see that his friendship was actually a huge part of her development despite their largely background friendship.
He was one of the few people that she always liked. She really, really liked him, more than you might realize without rewatching Season 4 all together. She never did anything worse than snark at him and it had a lot less of a bite to it than her remarks to a lot of the others, she allowed him into her personal space – she even initiated a lot of that by sitting next to him, sitting in his lap, going to him during musical numbers and interacting with him. She allowed herself to be silly and unguarded around him even before anyone else… (that last one is huge – this is a girl who after suffering the trauma of someone sexually assaulting her and having everyone turn on her because her best friend didn’t believe her, wrapped herself up in brick walls & barbed wire to prevent anyone having the power to hurt her like she was hurt before and she kept proving to herself that it was the right thing to do after Marley & Jake, Puck and Ryder. As well as losing to the others/feeling out of place in that group time-and-time again… even when she was becoming one of them. She kept creating self-fulfilling prophecies for herself (though that wasn’t all her fault always, especially later on…) because she was terrified of people getting close enough to hurt her… and yet Artie wheeled so easily into her heart.) that’s amazing. He was just so earnest, friendly and safe to her (because he was always so nice to her) that she could sing & dance with him, be wrapped up in a very close embrace with him, dance in his lap, kneel to sing with him, follow his cues, touch him, show off for him during performances, spend time with him, be softer and be close (however small the steps she took were) that she felt she could open up more. Which meant Marley and Ryder and the others could make their way into her heart too.
The biggest evidence of just how much Artie Abrams meant to her is that she noticed him enough to know he was upset when no one else did (considering the fact that alumni were there and his own friends in the Glee Club, including his best friend Tina, and not one of them noticed his off behavior and tried to investigate) and knew what his acceptance to Brooklyn Film Academy meant to him. She was willing to go convince his mom herself, which meant she was going to go over to his house, sit his mother down and explain to her how amazing and talented he was, how he deserved this amazing opportunity, how she knew he could survive NYC because he was just so damn strong in ways she never knew anyone could be…
That was an amazing show of care from her and when I rewatched that season I completely bought it.
In turn, she gave him confidence and pushed him to follow his dream. Artie is a character who had been pushed into the background, disrespected by most of his friends and especially his love interests, even though he outwardly had a lot of confidence, he needed to be pushed because he truly didn’t have as much as he let on. He was comfortable with where he was at that point and that’s where his confidence came from but when he had to step out of the comfort he built up he was understandably scared. She gave him the courage to pursue the college and his dream. As well, she made him feel appreciated, noticed and wanted. Which is something he rarely got to feel so genuinely and without some kind of catch. A lot like her really…
Those two have been quite unlucky in love too – partially their own fault in some cases, a lot of the time the people they chose. With each other they had someone who they felt cared. So they understand each other quite a bit which is shown by how Kitty stated that she wasn’t sure if they would work but she was willing to try. One of the most realistic and incredible moments in any relationship on the show – one that cemented how good they were to me even before I did a rewatch of the previous season for them.
Kitty & Artie have an unrestrained abandon around each other that just lights up the screen every time they share it. Perhaps the giddiest I’ve seen either of them was the ending to 'Wonder-ful’ (his speech & song for her) and of course 'Love, Love, Love’ where, when they were making each other happy, it radiated off of them in a way that I hadn’t seen from either of them… ever!
Also they call each other out/help each other be better than they were, which is always wonderful. They balance each other out. They have wonderful chemistry together and have very entertaining banter – they play off each other amazingly. They love each other exactly for who they are and showed it. (She sacrificed popularity for him and was willing to take a verbal lashing for her behavior toward him while explaining how she was wrong and deserved it because she liked him and did wrong by him and she opened up in front of everyone about how much she loves him. He respected her decision and understood why she did what she did and when Tina attacked her he came to her defense and only got mad at Tina when she brought her into their argument because 'she does love me and she isn’t a bitch and why does everyone ignore her effort to change, she’s trying so hard, she is so wonderful…’)
Basically, everything about their relationship as it was makes me happy.
What makes me sad about them:
I never watched the finale so to me they’re endgame. So if anything, it was that the way the writers broke them up – while relatively realistic (of course he didn’t mention it, it probably hurt and she was bitter in that way that showed whatever happened hurt but also not enough for her not to move past it once he (presumably) made the effort to apologize and she let go of that and everything else that she had been hurting over – the likely guess is that once he graduated their contact diminished and he broke up with her in an unsatisfactory and kinda jerk-ish but not deliberately hurtful way) deserved more than non-acknowledgement especially as we later learn how much she had to hurt without him and her friends there with her.
I also would have liked to see more of those two in general in the final season since I maintain the plan had to have been Wildebrams before Jenna and Kevin intervened on the matter. We should have seen a full apology scene and at the very least offhanded reference of glances at their repairing relationship.
things done in fanfic that annoys me:
Not too much fanfic to complain about in fanfic but on the subject of fanfiction, there’s a lot that can be done with them and the fact that we don’t have any of it is quite frustrating.
things I look for in fanfic:
… existing?
Who I’d be comfortable them ending up with, if not each other:
NO ONE. … Okay, Jake/Kitty & Artie/Quinn. Only because this asked me to pick.
My happily ever after for them:
After finding their way back together, they date for a while & she goes to NYC for school – they decide to be friends for a while and date other people because they want to explore and not just have dated people in their tiny high school Glee Club – before they become truly serious because their relationship, at the time, is what they consider their 'it’ – so their friendship becomes even stronger and they go through college finding themselves and growing into themselves as people in the real world before finally feeling ready for the last relationship they’ll ever have. So they get back together, move into an apartment, finish college, get jobs and get married.
Artie becomes a notable director, he and Kitty move to LA, she opens a dance studio and is a choreographer/dance teacher – they already have their oldest daughter (Harper Abrams) post-move but pre-studio and after that they have their middle children (Ivy Abrams & Jonah (J.J.) Abrams) about a year apart from one another and like ten years later have their final baby (Madeline Abrams) they live in a comfortable and just bordering on lavish California home and work a lot and also raise not only their children but also Tina & Mike’s son & adopted twins during the school year, Ivy’s closest friends sometimes and Kitty’s little cousins who by then are about college aged.
who is the big spoon/little spoon:
When riding his wheelchair, Kitty’s the little spoon, when cuddling in bed, she’s the big spoon which is absolutely adorable because she’s nuzzling his back and cuddling him close and he loves that just as much as when he’s holding her in his arms and has his chin atop her head.
what is their favorite non-sexual activity:
Watching movies and riffing said movies, dancing together & having lazy days with their children at home.









