#as a post

[kuyaself]

Somewhere out there exists a sapphic Sergei and that brings me joy

[choupichoups]

"It's both or nothing" me with Scarlett Letter Lucas (or just Lucas in general he's such a démon)

This bABY?? A démon?? 

[themadcapmathematician]

im bitter ok. like ill put in the work and talk about aroace experiences and issues and shit myself but like listen...im fucking bitter. aroaces never say nothing about how we're erased and sidelined and treated as if we don't belong in both of our communities and if we are hypervisible its only because we're the most convienient targets for aphobes, and some of y'all really have the nerve to act like everything in both communities is about us, even when y'all are so quick to assure everyone that at least aros can be allosexual like everyone else! at least aces can be alloromantic like everyone else! and talk up how much allo aros and aces do for their communities but ignore our contributions. I'm getting a little fucking sick of it

[tardisesandtitans]

AHHHHHH...AHHHHHH. ...I'VE BEEN BLESSED (so have you. Happy Valentine's Day)

[wordsfromafangirl]

I don't think there's an official name yet for Wynonna+Dolls+Doc but I personally have been going with Wyndolliday. ;-)

Well, I think we should go with that! I like how it rolls off the tongue. ;D 

[polyamoryprincess]

i literally don’t know how to write things without posting them ASAP (let alone not at all lmao) because I need immediate gratification and it’s a real problem actually lmao

[aeide-thea]

item the first: i am very bad at allowing others to take care of me—unpracticed and uncomfortable and graceless. this is true in many arenas, including the sexual. item the second: despite not knowing how to accept caretaking, i nonetheless yearn for it from time to time. (including, again, sexually.) item the third: i am conflating (in this post, and also in my thinking) 'being taken care of' with 'being touched by a partner in ways that are physically pleasurable for me' (as opposed to 'touching a partner in ways that are conceptually pleasurable for me'). this is arguably a reductive set of categorizations but also the one within which i am currently operating. item the fourth: 'bottoms learning fumblingly to top because they love each other and want to take care of each other' is, i think, not an inaccurate description of this relationship. which i actually like a lot! but is something of a complicating factor. anyway i spend a lot of time feeling as though my yearnings and vulnerabilities must be shining with a painful obviousness through my transparently thin skin, and so trying desperately to mask them; but i think maybe (and girlfriend confirms) that i am doing a better job of that masking than is good for me—or, well, what is 'good for me'? i shy from showing vulnerability because my family has historically handled that with roughness; it's wholly understandable and even healthy, in that setting, for my instinct to be camouflage. but girlfriend is not my family, and i want to learn to be soft with her, and trust that she will be gentle with my softness. ultimately we have to be able to bring the whole of our selves to the table, to have them welcomed and nourished (and of course in turn do the work of welcoming and nourishing, and make it clear that we want and are willing to do it! but that part i feel more comfortable with).