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Asexual icon Connor Hawke!!!!! I love him so much!!!

#green arrow #Connor Hawke #asexuality stuff #arrowfam

i see your "[character] wasn't given a canonical love interest bc they are gay and the writer(s) are cowards"...

and i see your "[character] had no chemistry w [canonical straight love interest] bc they are actually gay"....

and thats all well and good ofc. but may i also suggest....

"[character] is ace"

#cherry thoughts #me vagueblogging abt my obscure ace headcanons yessir #like not to be all 'cant 2 ppl of the same gender just be friends??' but fr #bilbo and frodo? ace. luke skywalker? ace. connor dbh? ACEEE. tintin? victor frankenstein? sherlock holmes??? ALL ACE. GOODNIGHT #and like. this isnt to put down gay ships or anything ofc; yall can ship what u want #im just saying like. sometimes ppl are so quick to headcanon a character as gay etc for having no opposite gender attraction #despite them ALSO not having any same gender attraction either??#just pls be aware that ace ppl exist. ik everyone is h*rny but im so sick of the only ace rep being children or child-minded characters #OR neurodivergent ppl (ive seen characters hc'ed as ace just bc they are autistic/autistic coded?? dont like that. highkey ableist imo)#anyway my point is that GROWN ADULT (and heaven forbid ATTRACTIVE) ppl can be ace #yes there are gay characters who were done dirty by the writers and yes there are characters who are clearly gay but had to be 'turned #straight' bc the writers/producers were cowards. BUT there are also characters who never express any attraction at all #just be mindful before slapping the 'gay' label on them. they can be ace too!!! and we always need more ace rep !!!!!!!!#okay thats all #no one asked for this but i thought about it and im Tired #ps if you read through all of this wow ily <3 #asexuality stuff

One of the first questions I was asked by my uncle who was hosting Seder tonight was if I am seeing anyone. Can we please reach a point where this is not a commonly asked question because as an asexual person who literally has no interested in dating I always feel like a failure saying “no” year after year. I’m not out to anyone in my family. And while I’ve long since come to terms with and accepted my sexuality myself, it’s moments like that I feel the shame tugging at me because I’m “not normal” that will probably always be there no matter how long I’ve tried to rewire my brain to not feel ashamed for being who I am.

#personal #asexuality stuff

awrooooo!!! awooo wooooo!!! happy pride month!!! i drew a few different pride icons for myself because i couldn’t decide what cute shirt i wanted.

#furry #wolf fluff #pride #otherkin stuff #the theta delta is therian stuff but otherkin stuff is my tag for all of it #werewolf life is the best life #non binary werewolf #gender stuff #asexuality stuff

hello, im upset bc someone said headcanoning character relationships as platonic is biased and hypocritical. so here are some characters that are definitely asexual according to me :)

Bilbo Baggins (Lord of the Rings)

Bruno Madrigal (Encanto)

Charlie Weasley (Harry Potter)

Chell (Portal)

Clara Clayton (Back to the Future)

Cole (Dragon Age)

Connor (Detroit: Become Human)

Daryl Dixon (The Walking Dead)

Din Djarin (The Mandalorian)

Doc Brown (Back to the Future)

Frodo Baggins (Lord of the Rings)

Jack Kline (Supernatural)

Jinx (Arcane)

Katniss Everdeen (Hunger Games)

Lara Croft (Tomb Raider)

Legolas Greenleaf (Lord of the Rings)

Link (Legend of Zelda)

Luke Skywalker (Star Wars)

Luna Lovegood (Harry Potter)

Mirabel Madrigal (Encanto)

Montgomery Scott (Star Trek)

Papyrus (Undertale)

Ratonhnhaké:ton (Assassin's Creed)

Rose Nylund (Golden Girls)

Ryland Grace (Project Hail Mary)

Sandal (Dragon Age)

Sarge (Red vs Blue)

Sherlock Holmes (BBC but also just in general)

Sirius Black (Harry Potter)

Spencer Reid (Criminal Minds)

Tintin (The Adventures of Tintin)

Victor Frankenstein (Frankenstein)

Viktor (Arcane)

Wheatley (Portal)

Yelena Belova (Marvel)

Zelda (Legend of Zelda)

#cherry thoughts #asexuality stuff #yes i headcanon some popularly-shipped characters as ace. what of it #asexual #asexuality #ace pride #asexual pride #asexuality pride #pride 2021 #kind of #i know its late sorry #i just needed to vent and sharing my ace headcanons is a little bit of a nicer way to do that :)#also obviously u can have different interpretations. i dont really care/mind lol. this is just how i see them #either way #important reminder that platonic relationships/love are just as valid and equal as romantic/sexual ones <3 #k thanx bai #(PS i might add to this later idk)

me, an asexual, knowing full well why everyone in the world is h*rny: ....why is everyone so h*rny

#cherry thoughts #this blog is just me posting random thoughts rn #one day ill look at my dashboard. but it is not this day #asexuality stuff

found family really does hit different when youre acespec/arospec huh

#cherry thoughts #my sister is like 'yeah its cool' as i physically restrain myself not to freak out #like it is the type of thing i caNNOT stop thinking about #like all romance goes OUT THE WINDOW as i bang pots and pans *WHO CARES*#i have never been so passionate until i have some good platonic love in my media #and unless u are aro/ace etc i feel like u wont actually understand how FERAL i go for it oml #asexuality stuff #found family #its not just 'yeah i love it :D' like it is a scream that pierces the sound barrier #i CANNOT express how essential it is to my being HHHHH

Thank you for your tags on the post about Ace people being in romantic relationships without sex. As a sex-repulsed person who would still like to fall in love again, that genuinely makes me feel more hopeful.

You're so very welcome!!! There is so much love out there in the world for those who want it, and many different types of love for those of us who have more specific boundaries and needs. I am sitting next to my husband as we speak, and when I woke up this morning I was thinking about how nice it was to have found someone like him. If anyone else out there is a sex-repulsed ace person like me who still wants a romantic relationship, it's perfectly possible- we've been married just over a year now, and I've never had a boundary crossed. Communication helps a lot, and it's good to establish boundaries clearly and early in the dating phase to set expectations at a realistic point.

Good luck out there in finding your person (or people, polyamorous folks are cool!)

#asexuality stuff #thank you makeusfly!