#ask!yixing

[childishgrin]

is it just me or yixing really looks lonely now. i was watching the dvd subbed and i realised that baekhyun is the only one who genuinely talks to him and includes him

i haven’t watched the second box yet! (which would explain why i’m getting confused with what to tag some posts lol)

but imo he’s probably pretty tired and has a lot on his mind with all of his chinese projects so it’s possible that it’s not so much that he’s being excluded but rather that most of the members don’t want to bother him more and baekhyun is just being baekhyun lmao. honestly he probably does feel a little lonely at times from having to be away from the group so often but i don’t think the other members are actively avoiding him or anything. also… everything’s edited so for all we know it could be that most of his interactions with the rest was either cut out or when the cameras weren’t there.

[childishgrin]

maybe its easy for us to judge him but i seriously do believe in asian culture even if people dont hate you for being gay but they just dont want to talk abt it, so most lgbt people keep pretending they're straight just to stay within a group.

it’s not about whether or not he’s pretending to be straight because he wants to keep his love life private or because he’s afraid of people’s reactions - that i can understand. i wouldn’t judge someone for that. (also i’m asian myself so...)

the problem is with the things that he sometimes says to “prove” that he’s a “real” man. they’re kinda homophobic and sexist?? And maybe even transphobic too?

[childishgrin]

i have a feeling maybe yixing is bi or gay so to prove he is manly he says all these things.

tbh i’ve had that thought cross my mind a few times before too (having said that, i try not to assume his/any idol’s sexual orientation) but if that happens to really be the case… it doesn’t really make it any better.