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How can you tell why an Aquarius drifts away, and how can you help bring them back?

When an Aquarius drifts away, you will notice that the time spent together drifts further and further apart. They’ll begin to ‘ghost’ by making excuses as to why they’re disappearing, cancelling dates, and being absent. Now, Aquarius can be aloof and indifferent, but they’ll snap back into reality once they realize they’ve been too far gone from their loved ones. If days turn to weeks and weeks turn into months…chances are the Aquarius is disassociating from the relationship. And most is the case, that they’re not even aware that they’re doing it. In their minds, their thinking “not today”… “I’m not in the mood to talk”… but then the days get longer and longer and their partner ends up hurt and confused. Why the Aquarius would do such a thing? They reach out only to get an “It’s ok. I’m just busy/tired. We’ll see each other soon”. 

Months pass and the Aquarius is still MIA. At this point, move on. An Aquarius in love will not want to spend time away from their partners. In fact, they can be quite clingy and possessive when in love. In your case, if he’s drifting away then that means there’s something wrong in the relationship. Aquarius give a lot in relationships without asking anything in return, but they’ll only do so if their interest is still there. When an Aquarius begins to lose interest in their partner, they’ll become cold, distant, indifferent and at times cruel. Their behavior in a relationship is a reflection of their partners, so the Aquarius will bail once things become stale and boring. The best way to get to him is through action. If you demand, he will rebel and give you nothing. If you nag, he will only see you as a drag. If you get emotional, he will think you have no control over your emotions.

Best course of action is to ‘move on’. You do you. Don’t sit around and wait for him. Go out and have fun. Ignore him. Aquarius men can be quite masochistic. If you act like he doesn’t exist, he’ll come back around. Why? Because Aquarius men like to ignore but HATE being ignored. Act nonchalant if he confronts you. At the same time, begin to move on from the relationship. Keep your options open without telling him. DO NOT TRY TO PROVOKE JEALOUSY this will only backfire. Once he comes back, set your terms and if he’s ok with that then communicate your needs. Place him in a probation period, if he fails then completely move on. No one has time to be sitting around and waiting on someone who’s gone half the time.

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There’s an Aquarius girl that really liked me but I could never tell because she was never very direct with her feelings towards me, I am attracted to her as well but now she’s kind of distanced herself from me because I started pursuing another girl. How can I make her more attracted to me? Also what kind of things do Aquarius girls do to show they like you so I don’t miss it next time?

Aquarius women aren’t as direct as other signs. We can be very subtle and timid with our interest. Our disinterest can seem like interest and our interest can seem like disinterest. This is why Aquarius are labeled enigmas. No one can really pin point what goes on in our minds or what we feel. Some clues can be very telling if you were to pay close attention though. 

When an Aquarius likes someone they can go into their shell so the object of their affection doesn’t let up that she has interest. This is a defense mechanism to avoid rejection. If you’re direct with her and show your interest and she’s interested, she will reciprocate. She might have trouble expressing her interest verbally, but her actions will prove to you that she likes you. If she’s consistent in her interest then it’s a definite sign she likes you. 

You can’t however make her more interested or attracted to you. If she likes you, chances are you already checked out and she likes what she sees. What you can do is keep things interesting as many signs fail to keep her. Make her laugh, be humble, kind, passionate, ambitious. Have an end game. Aquarius women love a man who is striving to be better and make those around him live’s better. She will be attracted to a gentleman who’s strong, isn’t afraid to get down and dirty, and treats her with grace and sensitivity. 

Finally, if an Aquarius sees you pursue another person, they will completely back off and move on. The trust in their eyes can be easily shattered and disappointment can set in. You’d have to repair the damage by not letting her know of this other woman and making her feel safe. If she sees or senses so much that you are entertaining other women, she will bail only to never look back.

Good luck!

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I'm a Scorpio girl who just went through a break up with my now Aquarius ex. We reestablished being friends but I want to win him back. How do I do it?

Scorpio and Aquarius relationships are quite interesting. They’re both so similar yet so different. They’re karmic and soulmate pairings. The major issue with these two is C O N T R O L. Scorpio is notorious for being in control of relationships and if they’re not? They’ll try and force it. Very dogmatic and passionate people with quick tempers and venomous words. Aquarius on the other hand, likes to be in control of their own lives. They hate being told what to do and likes to remain calm like a steady stream. They’re quiet, observant, and calculating when hurt. Scorpio has a tendency to hurt the Aquarius with their words which Aquarius only resents. Bu unlike Scorpios, Aquarius will keep their emotions and opinions to themselves until they finally blow up. While Scorpios will feel like they made a breakthrough with the Aquarius, Aquarius will see it as the beginning to the end. 

My personal issue in the past with Scorpios has been that they can be very stubborn with how they view things. Everything has to be done their way and because of that, they lack the empathy needed to see our point of view. Scorpios get a kick out of inciting emotional reactions from us. But when they don’t get that, they hit low below the belt to get that reaction. To an Aquarius, this only pushes us away because we don’t employ such tactics. We see this as emotional manipulation which is a huge No-No to us. 

If you want this to work out long term, you both will have to learn to compromise. But since you contacted me and I have no way of knowing from him his stance, I will say that you can definitely win him back if you change for the better. You should have no issue with this as Scorpios are all about transformation and rebirth. So you will need to begin with yourself before you can expect anything from him. You need to address the issues that he had with you before you can have an opportunity to go back together. He needs to see a positive change in you so that he can feel safe again.

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I am a Pisces guy who has been on & off with an Aquarius woman for a year, between the relationship she started fooling around with a Sag & ever since then our sexual relationship hasn’t been the same, she’s reluctant & she has way more complaints, claiming she just isn’t in the mood. What can I change? I honestly feel like her & the Sag just have a super strong sexual connection or maybe they understand each other in that way better & I feel like I can’t match that.

I’m sorry to hear about your relationship with this Aquarius. From my personal experience, fire and air signs seem to work better than water and air. But this is more of my personal preference as I’m an airy Aqua with little fire in my chart. In other words, I’m fire void. There are other Aquarius that are water void and seem to work well with water signs. But I’m going to go on a limb here and assume that this Aquarius is like me and say that this Aquarius might have found that passion she deeply craves in a fire sign. Sagittarius share a familiarity with Aquarius that brings out a passionate side to the Aqua. There are positives in a Pisces and Aqua relationship as well. Pisces can bring out the emotional and dreamy side of an Aquarius. But if the Aquarius isn’t used to drowning in emotions, then she will feel suffocated and bored, especially if there is little to no variance in the boudoir. Given your situation, it seems like this Aquarius might not have had that sexual chemistry that she had with the Sag. 

To an Aquarius, sexual chemistry is excruciatingly important. It’s difficult to find that true connection with that person and when we find it, we can be quite stubborn to let go. It’s such a buzzkill when someone you’re with can’t offer variety, fun, and pillow talk in the bedroom. If you wish to keep her interested you will need to offer her mental stimulation. Try teasing her a bit, leaving emotions to the side, and start treating her as more of a FWB. I know it sounds strange but when you remove emotion, you will leave nothing but carnal desires and this is what the Aquarius wants. The reason fire and air work so well in the bedroom is because they are instinctual (not emotional) and have a way of combining passion, beastly desires, with hint of emotion (sometimes). They’re not afraid to turn their partner inside out, pound them from behind, turn them over like a rag doll, and take control. They will make you feel like a lady in the streets but a freak in the sheets. 

To understand further, Aquarius are quite closed off from the outside world. Perceiving and receiving their surroundings. Graceful creatures who keep to themselves and hold reservations for all emotions. The bedroom to them is a release of all emotions and carnal desires that cannot be expressed out in public. So it’s crucial to make her feel like she has something to look forward too. Her disinterest in the physical is a tell-tale sign that she’s losing her passion within your relationship. She has no excitement. Like a child who’s grown bored and is sitting in the corner wondering when the next adventure, if that, will begin. Repetitiveness is not for an Aquarius. Unpredictability and variance is what she needs to stay interested. 

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When Aquarius man breaks up with you and hurt you in the process does he have any remorse or does he just simply move on like nothing happened

Men in general can be cruel, Aquarius men are no different. They can be cold, calculating, and ruthless. If he’s been hurt previously in the relationship without any reason, he will feel no remorse doing so. In his mind, he’s just repaying the favor. If it was unprovoked then he is capable of remorse, unless he’s a complete narcissist, he can come back randomly in the future asking for an apology. 

The biggest misconception about Aquarius is that we appear to be cold, detached, and unmoved when the contrary can be the actual case. We will act like we don’t care but on the inside, we can be hurting and the other person will never know.

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I'm an aqua female (heyyyy 👋🏽) and I had this aqua guy. We were together for two whole years where we did this cute aqua thing where we were both like "we don't want to date each other" and it was all good and it had its ups and downs until I grew tired and I was like can't we make this official ... AND THEN HE CUT ME OFF!!! And he cut off all our mutual friends and got a whole new squad and he changed over night and became like a whole new person... What did I do wrong ?

You did nothing wrong. The issue here is him, not you. But, it’s quite simple. He liked the free lifestyle you were providing him with: free sex, relationship type of arrangement without any ‘rules’. The moment you put your foot down he ran. Why? Because he’s afraid to commit and/or possibly never had any intention of committing to you. Aquarius men are content with living a relationship type of arrangement without the actual commitment, so they can have the freedom to screw around with other females. The moment you took that away from him, he bailed. Just know that this has more to do with him than you. Move on to someone who will not run away the moment you have the ‘talk’.

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I talked to an aqua male for about a month with intentions of being friends w benefits, (I’m a Libra sun, aqua moon)... I stopped talking to him because of a mishap between me and one of his friends that had feelings for him. I finally confronted him about the mishap we moved on and agreed to stay friends, but now he ignores me whenever I say hi to him in person(we don’t text anymore) I would still like to be friends but now I am afraid he no longer likes me, any advice??

It sounds to me like you are emotionally attached to this man. First rule of thumb, never subject yourself to a friends with benefits situation with a man you have feelings for. Never settle for less. You will not get a man to commit to you that way…well at least an Aquarius man. It (almost) never works. Aquarius men are picky and they are fixed thought. So if you agree to a FWB situation, then that is what he will always see you as. He might have distanced himself because he knows you are emotionally attached when you guys agreed to a no strings attached situation. Now, he’s creating the distance hoping you take the hint to move on. It’s a passive aggressive move and it sucks, but at least he’s not leading you on to believe there could be something else. I’m sorry. But the best course of action for you would be to move on from him and come back when you truly have no more feelings.

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Why do Aquarius still care about me after break up, texted to check am I okay. Am I feeling better. Does this means we have chance to get back ?

Your question lacks context, what was the reason for the break up? Who initiated it? 

In these cases, it’s hard to know what happened but I’m going to assume the worst case scenario and say it was him that broke up with you. When an Aquarius breaks up with someone they can feel really horrible about doing it, and might want to check up on you to see if you’re doing ok. It doesn’t mean that they’re trying to get back with you. It’s a way to show that they’re there for you and that just because you two are no longer together, it doesn’t mean they stopped caring. It’s a way to ease your pain but by doing so an Aquarius doesn’t realize that they’re giving you false hope. 

On the positive side though, it could be he has a soft spot for you and cares for you enough to check up on you. Which is a good thing looking at the bigger picture. It means that the reasons for the breakup weren’t that severe that he’d ghost you or cut you cold turkey style but more so because of circumstances. In this case, there could be a possible reconciliation but if the issues are not addressed, then the Aquarius will take a more blunt and harsh approach to break up.