#ask mmmcchan

[mmmcchan]

I would love to see that little trip in a vlog and picture i think that would be fun!! itd be like we all got to come too and its friendly and stuff. yeah.

(( Yaaay!₍՞◌′ᵕ‵ू◌₎♡ Thank you for your kind words! I also think it would be nice for you to see a little in my life view thingy~~ Since I love all of you and it would mean so much to me, to have you all with me…so this is the only way I could think of..and I am glad that no one (so far) is against it! （*´▽｀*）Thank you~ and have a lovely day, sweetie! (°◡°♡).:｡ ))

[mmmcchan]

Hi, I need some advice if you don't mind. I'm in a really awkward relationship right now. We haven't spoken to each other in weeks but I don't think either of us have the guts to break up with the other. I would really appreciate some guidance on this but sorry if I'm just bothering you

(( Sweetie, you are not bothering me! I am happy if I can be of help! But remember, I can babble on as much as I want, but you have to make the decision on what your next step should be. Well, the question is, do you want to break up?

I mean not speaking for so long..doesn’t seem quiet healthy and maybe it is a sign that both of you are avoiding each other - maybe trying to break it off. I can’t say for sure, since I do not know the situation or either of you.

I am saying this IF you wish to end it with this person.

SO! 

Think about it this way - another day more in this relationship (that you may not want) is another day less with someone who could offer you love, attention and time and whom you could love back.

If you wish to end it - it is slightly unfair to both of you to continue on, if you seem to have drifted apart - again  IF you don’t want to be together. You should find the strength in you and break it off, for the sake of both of you. Maybe you are scared of hurting this person, but you will both carry out the pain in the end. 

IF you wish to continue this relationship - something does have to change and that fast - One of you will have to speak up, fess up what the deal is and try to work things out!

Dear anon, I really wish you all the best, find the strength in you - to do what you believe is the true path for you. Hope this helped you, even if just a little bit! (❃•̤ॢᗜ•̤ॢ)✲*｡♡ ))

[mmmcchan]

Hi, I really need someone to talk to. My boyfriend has been wanting to be with his friends a lot recently. He'll leave me alone to go be with his friends. He left me on Thanksgiving (alone) to go to his friend's house. He wouldn't go eat with me the other day, but proceeded to go eat with his friends. I've tried talking to him but nothing helps, he just doesn't listen. He just says "I'm sorry", but still leaves. Am I doing something wrong? What should I do? I love him, but he's breaking me.

(( I’m sorry that you are going through that! Sometimes people can be selfish and forget about other peoples feelings. I know how you feel, you don’t want to intrude - or sound annoying, demanding or anything like that.

But..sweetheart, if he can hear what you are saying doesn’t mean he is listening. Tell him ..the exact same thing you told me, that he is breaking you. That you feel as if he is takibg you for granted - that you understand that he wants to be with his buddies, but that he should try and understand your feelings. Maybe you should all hang out every once in a while BUT you do need some alone/together time. But don’t try to change him, don’t try to suffocate him and hold him too close.

Maybe ask to be included with his friends and include him with yours. He just probably wanted to hang out with his buddies.

Talking..is hard, because one might not listen and the way you explain things can sound in different ways… People are confusing and hard to deal with.

Hopefully you two can sort it out. Don’t give uo if it’s worth fighting for it! Have a good day!( ˘ ³˘)♥ ))

[mmmcchan]

Hi! I really need your advice! So a few months ago I started talking to this guy and we somehow got into a relationship ( we live in different countries) everything was fine until a week ago! All of a sudden he became so distant and I already tried to talk to him and I don't know what to do! Do you think I should break up with him? Or stop talking to him?

(( Hello there! As with every advice, take in as much as you need - maybe just a spoonful. Long distance relationships are hard. Extremely hard, you need to have a lot of trust, endurance and love. With long distance relationships - if you knew the person before in RL and you two are willing to make the effort of seeing each other then it can work out. Long distance relationships can work out if you two are willing to work hard for it.But honestly - let me be frank. Mostly they don’t work out, simply because of trust issues, the pain of not being able to be together. Yes it can be bittersweet having someone so far away…longing for them.But what comes after you meet, on the internet you have the power to pick out the things you like best about yourself and show yourself in the best possible way. So what if after meeting - he or you are completely different people. Can either of you cope with that, can you accept it?Truthfully sweetheart…it will be hard and I rather see you happy with someone who can be there for you in an instant, than someone so far away that is distant emotionally and physically.But do, what you feel comfotable with. Do what will make you happy and what you know is best for both of you! Be strong, sweetie! I believe in you! Hope this helped you ( •ω•ฅ）.｡.:*♡ Have a lovely day!))

[mmmcchan]

Where's the second part of sleeping beauty? *smirks and wiggles eyebrows * and that bj during seven hacking?

(( ah~…well…you see..I have been avoiding that a little..since I am not THAT into Seven at the moment.. But I did promise it, didn’t I?( ˊᵕˋ )♡.°⑅Hummm, ok let’s do it like this. This week I will publish these two works (maybe combine them into one) - and the other series will have to wait. Ok? ღゝ◡╹)ノ♡ Thank you for your support! Have a lovely day~))

[mmmcchan]

can i ask u for advice?

(( Yes. Life advice, cooking advice, relationship advice?∠( ᐛ 」∠)＿ 

Life advice: Touch someone’s soul with your kindness.

Cooking advice: Season your food with love and actual seasoning…food needs to be yummy.

Relationship advice: Respect other people’s opinions even when they differ from your own.Have a lovely day~  (◍•ᴗ•◍)♡ ✧*。))

[mmmcchan]

You teach language? wow, that's cool! what I ever teach is history ^^ oh, and I love your fics too <3

(( You are cool and I love YOU~  (๑°꒵°๑)･*♡ Thank you for your sweet words~ have a great day! ))

[mmmcchan]

ooh you teach a language? so cool!!! i just started to teach a language too and i had no idea it would be so hard T_T my students are basically the same age as me (and older!!) so it's so stressful to have them take me seriously T_T teach me your ways!

(( Hello there! Hm, teaching IS hard, it takes a big toll on you - emotionally and physically. You prepare for your students so much and it takes hours and hours to prepare for 1 simple hour, but no preparation is ever enough; as a teacher you are their role-model, you have to be an actor - you have to be uplifting and happy - but never lie about how you are feeling - they will know, you have to be neutral and love everyone the same. No matter how hard it can be. In the end of  of the day - you take up a big part in the students life, as do they in yours. 

I am a very goofy, happy person - I am a big klutz and I like cute things - which could make me look unbelievably not serious. But - the way you look, how old you are none of those things actually matter - you don’t care how old your students are, right? The way you present your material - what you want to teach them is what will help you gain respect. Are you knowledgeable, can you explain hard material in a way that will make them understand?

My students love and respect me - because I am always well prepared, I cater to their needs (their needs in learning, example - if they  don’t want to learn a certain thing - we WILL still learn it, but with a different more fun method), I remember names and their lives - I try to know them more. Because the way they look when I remember certain things from their lives - is really cute. How happy they seem. I am happy when I see them understand and how they grow - it is such a great experience.

Teacher doesn’t mean - to be stern, dry and unforgiving.

A teacher searches for possibilities to make things easier, opens discourse and lets others talk, a teacher lets their students teach them back.

To gain respect is simple - you respect them. Respect is like a mirror - how you handle others will come right back at you~ Hopefully this was helpful and don’t forget! Have fun! That is the most important part! (｡･ω･｡)ﾉ♡ ))