wasn't able to reply to your post on bsky about mpreg but tbh as a trans guy who does plan to have kids myself at some point it's so frustrating when people only ever seem to treat mpreg as either a joke or body horror, cause it just makes everyone else continue to see it that way. like i have a couple of transmasc characters who've had kids but i never feel like i can share that part of their life in art cause people will just freak the fuck out about it. like i'd love to be able to draw my characters pregnant and frame it as a beautiful/sexy thing but it seems like the only "acceptable" mpreg is stuff that still treats it as deviant in some way. it fuckin sucks man
i agree with you and that's another reason why i want us to put our minds forward and shamelessly portray mpreg in 'less acceptable' ways because you're right! even when trans guys bring up mpreg i think for a lot of people its easier to stomach only if its in the context of horror / unwanted pregnancy, because they cant wrap their minds around any actual real man possibly wanting to carry children. but i think both should be able to coexist (the harrowing dread of pregnancy + the joy and sexiness of genuinely wanting it) because both are compelling and worthy of depiction. and can most definitely be hot and beautiful and interesting.
i actually have a trans guy oc who had a daughter that i drew yeeeears ago, way before i started a more open journey down the path of mpreg. and no one ever made a fuss about it. granted, i had a smaller account at the time, but people have always been widely respectful about what i do.
(qamar and his daughter that he birthed:)
but in the long years since then i couldnt get it out of my head that i wanted to make more stories featuring trans pregnancy and fatherhood, from all kinds of different angles and i dont care to hold back anymore. ive written the horror mpreg. ive drawn the porn art. ive got a longform project in the works. and ive been having so much fun with it all that i want to now encourage anyone else with even an inkling of an interest or idea to just go ahead and pursue it.
people will hate on the actions and creative pursuits of trans people regardless. and i simply dont give a fuck. i want to make this stuff, it fulfills me, and that's all that matters. and i think there are other trans guys out there too who love mpreg and want to bring some fresh ideas to the table, too. to that i say: yes please!