#assignment: midterm

[pinay-princess]

MIDTERM; MOCK TRIAL CLAIM

Dominant: Alexis St. James ( @alexis-st-james​ ) Submissive: Princess Kalangitan 

Before the week begins what do expect from your partner?

I’m really looking for someone to be super patient with me. Like I’m really trying to do my best but I haven’t had that much experience. Up until a few months ago, I’ve had my head in the clouds. But I’m willing to try and give it my all. 

What are the rules you and your partner have discussed together, and how do they differ from what you assume your claim will actually be?

Rules: [ link ] I haven’t even began to think about what my rules as a claimed submissive would be. I’m still trying to get the hang of being a submissive so like the thought of being in a claim has not even crossed my mind. 

If you’re taking up the Submissive role, how do you feel this will prepare you for a life of being able to provide for your Dominants needs, and be there for them in whatever capacity is needed by them?

I feel like it’ll give me something to base off whatever future experiences I might have. So like the having rules thing really helped me see what the structure would be like. Having a routine with one set person was kind of nice and I wouldn’t mind exploring this more.  

As the week comes to a close what have you learned about your partner, and how do you feel this experience has changed you both going forward?

Alexis is a great Domme. She was firm but kind and open to fulfilling my needs while tending to her own. It’s definitely taught me a lot about the expectations of me as a submissive. I can’t wait to learn more. 

In conclusion do you think, through this experience, you are ready for whatever claim comes into your life?

Oh no, I already know I’m not ready for a claim cause I literally just started my journey here. I have a long way to go.

If not, what do you think needs to change within yourself, or your partner to become ready? If so, what steps are you going to be taking going forward to find someone to fit the needs you’ve found within yourself in a partner?

Oh it’s 100% a me thing that I need to work on but it’s nothing bad. Just more experience and maybe opening myself up to scening with more than the two people I have been scening with. So like things to think about. 

[ljgilbert]

MIDTERM; MOCK TRIAL CLAIM

Dominant: LJ Gilbert Submissive: Aaron Smythe ( @aaronsmythe​ )

Before the week begins what do expect from your partner?

The two main things I’m looking for are: communication and a real effort. We’re both a little out of our elements here, especially with not really knowing each other. So this is going to take a lot of work from both of us. And none of that work can happen unless we’re giving it our all. Oh and also a positive attitude about this because no matter what it’s going to be a learning experience and we could even build a great friendship from this. 

What are the rules you and your partner have discussed together, and how do they differ from what you assume your claim will actually be?

Rules: [ link ] They differ for two main reasons. The first is the fact that we really don’t know anything about each other. So the rules were basically based off his limits and two conversations together. There’s also the element that nothing is sexual because of my sexual preference and my real claim would have elements like that in it. 

If you’re taking up the Dominant role, how do you feel this will prepare you for a life of taking care of, and providing structure for your Submissive going forward?

This has definitely prepared me. I’ve been working up to a trial claim with my partner and this experience with Aaron has made me think outside of the box which I feel will be necessary to do during a real live claim. There’s no situation to grave that two people working together can’t get through. 

As the week comes to a close what have you learned about your partner, and how do you feel this experience has changed you both going forward?

I’ve learned that Aaron is awesome and even though he comes off standoffish, he was very willing to cooperate with me. He’s also a good cook and a boss at video games. I think it has made us closer and I really hope we hang out more in the future. 

In conclusion do you think, through this experience, you are ready for whatever claim comes into your life?

I think so. If anything this experience has kind of solidified it. I went in with a positive attitude and used my expertise as a Dominant in my favor. So yeah, I’m definitely ready. 

If not, what do you think needs to change within yourself, or your partner to become ready? If so, what steps are you going to be taking going forward to find someone to fit the needs you’ve found within yourself in a partner?

I have already found someone I’m going to be taking the next steps with. And I can’t wait to take this step. She meets all of my needs and wants and I’m ready. 

[divamercyjones]

MIDTERM; MOCK TRIAL CLAIM

Dominant Party: Mercedes Jones Submissive: Marisol Lopez ( @marisol-isabel )

Before the week begins what do expect from your partner?

Honesty and communication first and foremost. I want them to feel comfortable enough to talk to me about their needs and expectations and most importantly when something is wrong because that’s what I’m there for, right? I’m expecting us to chill and really take the time to get to know each other. Which will involve lots of cooking and keeping scenes where I’m comfortable: domestic. 

What are the rules you and your partner have discussed together, and how do they differ from what you assume your claim will actually be?

Rules: [ link ] This is a hard question because at this point, I don’t know what kind of claim I’ll be in or even if I’ll be claimed or claim someone else. It really is all up in the air for me so we’ll have to wait and see when I have a better handle on my role.

If you’re taking up the Dominant role, how do you feel this will prepare you for a life of taking care of, and providing structure for your Submissive going forward?

I think this has helped a lot. In the past when I dabbled in my Dominance, I didn’t really have the wherewithal to have the structure of rules or a daily schedule for my submissive. So this really gave me the experience I was looking for in that respect, making me feel just a little more prepared if I decided to be the person to claim someone else. 

As the week comes to a close what have you learned about your partner, and how do you feel this experience has changed you both going forward?

I’ve learned a lot from Mari. I learned that Tajin can pretty much be used for anything and I will definitely be using it on a regular basis from now on. It has taught me to be mindful of how I balance expectations and rules with empathy and flexibility. It really is a balancing act and you really have to know someone to know when and how to push. 

In conclusion do you think, through this experience, you are ready for whatever claim comes into your life?

So as far as being ready? I would say that’s a hell-to-the-no. There’s still so much I need to learn about D/s in general then coming from each side of my mark. And I’m not in a rush. 

If not, what do you think needs to change within yourself, or your partner to become ready? If so, what steps are you going to be taking going forward to find someone to fit the needs you’ve found within yourself in a partner?

The steps I need to take are already in motion. Me being here, learning through theory in my classes and through practical application during scenes and my interactions with the people around me. 

A Look into the week:

Mercedes Jones

Mercedes thought dinner went well. From her perspective, it was the most Dominant she'd felt all week. She was holding back and trying to be extra accommodating to Mari because of her relationship with Aspen. But it was nice to actually feel like she was in control. Even though Mercedes enjoyed her time with Mark it didn't seem like Mari agreed. But she wasn't going to ask about it until they were back at her apartment. As she pulled the ice cream out of the freezer, she popped the cap and started scooping into the two bowls on the counter. "You wanna tell me what's bothering you?"

Marisol Lopez

Ever since Mark’s arrival on campus and his long winded douchey post, she had managed to steer clear of him.  Something about him rubbed her the wrong way.  She’d bit her tongue all night long and managed to behave herself in his presence.  The submissive was ready to chalk the night up to a loss and simply sleep off the feeling but then Mercedes was questioning her and she couldn’t help the somewhat cranky, mumbled reply.  “My knees.  Miss.”  It was true. She hadn’t spent that long kneeling in awhile and her knees were irritated.

Mercedes Jones

Mercedes finished scooping the ice cream as she gave Marisol her full attention. It wasn't completely convincing but she was going to take Mari's word at face value. She didn't know her well enough to doubt her. "Alright, let's take a look at them. Go sit on the couch. Here." Mercedes handed her a bowl of ice cream and disappeared into the bathroom to get some salve for her irritated skin. She didn't think about it, perhaps because her own knees has enough cushion to keep her from ever feeling irritated from kneeling. She brought her ice cream into the living room too, taking a bite before putting it on the coffee table and sitting next to Mari. "Legs up here," she offered patting her lap. "Let's take a look at them knees."

[zoesrose]

MIDTERM; MOCK TRIAL CLAIM

Dominant: Zoe Rose Submissive: Booker Wright ( @booker-wright​ )

Before the week begins what do expect from your partner?

Respect, honesty, and compliance. 

What are the rules you and your partner have discussed together, and how do they differ from what you assume your claim will actually be?

Rules: [ link ] I suppose we’ll see when I have an actual claim. 

If you’re taking up the Dominant role, how do you feel this will prepare you for a life of taking care of, and providing structure for your Submissive going forward?

Practice. 

As the week comes to a close what have you learned about your partner, and how do you feel this experience has changed you both going forward? In conclusion do you think, through this experience, you are ready for whatever claim comes into your life?

It’s given us experience. I’ve been ready. 

If not, what do you think needs to change within yourself, or your partner to become ready? If so, what steps are you going to be taking going forward to find someone to fit the needs you’ve found within yourself in a partner?

More practice. 

[sirclaringtons]

MIDTERM; MOCK TRIAL CLAIM

Dominant: Hunter Clarington Submissive: Roberta Corcoran ( @bobbicorcoran​ )

Before the week begins what do expect from your partner?

An understanding of her role and the willingness to follow my rules. I demand respect and for my orders to be followed without question. 

What are the rules you and your partner have discussed together, and how do they differ from what you assume your claim will actually be?

Rules: [ link ] There will be no negotiations when it comes to my actual claim. Any and everything will be determined by me. What I say goes. Complete power exchange. A relationship of that nature takes time to develop and can not be executed in a mere week. 

If you’re taking up the Dominant role, how do you feel this will prepare you for a life of taking care of, and providing structure for your Submissive going forward?

If nothing else experience. I am test running some rules for the first time so this experience will show me which rules are applicable as is, which ones need to be tweaked, and which ones can be thrown out completely. It will also be something I can draw on in the future if similar situations arise. 

As the week comes to a close what have you learned about your partner, and how do you feel this experience has changed you both going forward? In conclusion do you think, through this experience, you are ready for whatever claim comes into your life?

Some submissives are just meant to be unruly and in desperate need of correction. I was always against the notion of having to deal with a submissive who liked to break the rules, but I’ve found that it could be fun. She’s broadened my horizons for some real fun. I am more than ready for any claim that walks into my life. 

If not, what do you think needs to change within yourself, or your partner to become ready? If so, what steps are you going to be taking going forward to find someone to fit the needs you’ve found within yourself in a partner?

More weeks like this one. A mock trial claim. Except with the consent of both parties, not being paired up with a complete stranger only to find that it would be a waste of time.