associates-grace replied to your post:gdi I’m gonna have to break things off with this...
okay so idk if you saw the post where I’m ‘flirting’ and calling myself a lizard person, but it went in a weird direction and I called boobs “organic milk sacks” and he was pretty much like “that’s the least sexy thing I’ve ever heard boobs called” so I said some others (udders, fat globes, etc) and he said I was ruining boobs for him and I said something to the effect of “if you can’t find them sexy when I point out why they exist you’re weak and don’t deserve them”. I kinda meant it, was kinda using tumblr humor. The point is, I got this message from him:
“And that was the first time anybody’s called me weak I don’t like it haha”
Which I have two major problems with:
1) I am not down for passive aggressive male anger. That’s not something I want to be dealing with further down the road.
2) I am not down for guys who are obsessed with patriarchal masculinity and can’t/don’t like it when they’re viewed in a way outside of that. I really can’t deal with a guy who thinks he has to be strong all the time. I was really thinking this wasn’t the case with him. He’s pretty progressive and seems to be a feminist, but maybe he’s not as far in his journey as I had hoped, and frankly if he’s still at this point I don’t want to be his teacher.