#astronons

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What is your Nodal Synastry experience, you mentioned it on your blog. We should talk about it more.

Both are to teach you to move towards or away from something, but not many people are evolved enough to have beneficial, constructive nodal synastry because of how shit things have become in terms of how society operates. People have created way more self limitations for themselves and sociologically we aren't doing very well so it's going to be harder to experience good nodal synastry which is why all the takes are shit. Like, the amount of negative interpretations I've seen on this synastry is so frustrating because it just goes to show that people get in their own way when it comes to evolving. People are literally alwayyysss choosing to suffer now.

From an un-evolved place it manifests as Rahu just taking, taking, taking, trying to be loved and liked by the other, doing ultimately way too much, and then being rejected and getting mad regardless of what happens because the thing they're seeking is not what they actually need and it becomes a cycle of that basically. Low vibrational nodal contacts will drain the hell out of you, your time, energy and resources. With un-evolved Ketu, I personally knew I was experiencing Ketu synastry when I started tweaking in my bedroom talking away as if they were there—literally talking to ghosts bro.

You can't force a person's growth which is like the ultimate lesson when looking at both contacts. With Ketu contacts, it's to get you to stop chasing a shadow and be like "hey, I actually really don't like this and it's painful so imma leave because its holding me back and i'm going in circles here." and with Rahu, its to show and get you to notice themes and areas in your life where you may be afraid to fully dive into. The one place you avoid is the one place you need to go in most cases lmfao.

For evolved cases in synastry, for Rahu it's more like "I see your potential and I would like for us to help support each other by standing alongside each other while navigating our way through the world." (Rahu) and Ketu synastry to me is like seeing somebody's purest form before life grabs a hold onto them and changes their purest form. It's saying, "I want you to remind yourself that your roots aren't all bad and they should be honored while we navigate this and you hold the wisdom that fills the gap between the bridge." (Ketu) THIS is the perfect balance that not many people can fall into because everyone has way too many issues LOL like i'm scared..

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how is lilith venus synastry forbidden

In many cases, there are usually external forces at play that keep the pair from actually forming a long-term, stable connection whether it be pressure/rejection from society, disapproval from loved ones, distance, age/race/status difference, third party situations, etc. Between me and my Lilith guy, one of us is always single while the other isn’t so it just hasn't worked out. I also dated their best friend who I had Venus-Lilith synastry with...messy I know, but that's Lilith synastry for you! Those experiencing Venus-Lilith synastry know the connection might not last forever, but there's an almost instinctual urge to pursue it anyways.

Some Lilith-Venus duos in media:

-Harold and Maude

-Jules and Michael in My Best Friend's Wedding

-Olivia and Fitz in Scandal

-Romy and Samuel in Babygirl

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If you have 8th house synastry with someone, do you really like them, or is it just subconscious attraction? Is it possible that after getting to know the real them, your feelings would change?

That’s a great interpretation. It’s like being so obsessed with someone who possesses something you also possess (shared possessions), but you have such a hard time seeing it within yourself (as the 8H is adverse to the 1st) so you either hate the person’s guts or are unhealthily attached, maybe both lol. I’ve had many people in my life who I’ve had 8H synastry with and I really do think you’re right about how once you get to know the real, unfiltered version of them—that’s when things can become rocky.

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hi can you explain more about uttrabadrapada being close to death?

Uttara Bhadrapadas aren’t literally close to death meaning they’re dying, but the concept of mortality is very comforting to them. They feel comfortable with the idea that there will always be a way out of suffering and that nothing is permanent. It is said that UBP represents what comes after an ending such as death, hence why these people frequently reflect on their impermanence in the world. This is depicted with the symbol associated with this nakshatra, the back legs of a funeral cot; coming to an end of life where the body is burned and begin the process of “purification”.

These people also frequently go through major transformations throughout their lives which in a way is a form of death. Transformation can be like shedding of the skin such as a serpent does which is the deity that governs UBP; Ahir Budhnya Samhita who lives in the deepest part of the ocean. This serpent of the depths is associated with the hidden depths of wisdom, endurance of hardships, and spiritual evolution which is why UBPs are incredibly deeply contemplative. UBPs are also in a constant state of deep sleep sitting with their unconscious— mind you all while being awake which is why they’re kind of hard to reach in other people’s eyes. Their relationship with death and sitting in these depths of contemplation are more valuable to them than anything in the material; it comforts and protects them from the overwhelming noise of the outside world.

(This is mainly about UBP Moons)

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What would Saturn DK usually attract? I heard older people tend to find them. I am crushing on the Saturn DK bad but usually they like older and wiser and I am a Mercury AK so I look younger for my age 💔 Star what is your DK?

I have a Saturn DK in my 1st! It doesn’t necessarily mean you’ll be with someone older, just someone with more experience, maturity, wisdom, or ability to get shit done. Your person could have Saturnian traits like sharp bone structure, taller height, a lean body, eye bags, depression (lol), etc. Or they could simply have Saturn ruled placements in their charts or a prominent Saturn placement—I will say the DK is pretty accurate in terms of who you’ll end up with.

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How would you know when a Scorpio Sun and Scorpio Venus is testing you? Would they test boundaries? My last one was super sensitive and felt suffocated and I never gave space. This Scorpion is harder to read, it is so weird 😩 Is it just me or do some LOVEEEE TO BE SMOTHERED and some don’t or am I tweaking deadasz

It’s so easy to tell lmfao. A Scorpio testing you is like window shopping (on the outside looking in at a safe distance). They observe more than they engage. Even if you’re sitting right next to them if feels like there’s an invisible barrier. They’re also very strategic—the type to ask you questions about yourself, yet rarely opens up about their own lives as an act of emotional self-preservation. One time this Scorpio rising was asking me so many questions, I had to stop him and say “wtf are you the feds?”.

If they bring you around their close friends or family they’re probably helping the Scorpio keep an eye out for red flags. Definitely will test boundaries if they feel at risk of losing emotional safety or will test to see whether or not their intensity can be “palatable” for the other person. It’s mainly a trauma thing because Scorpios generally do have some tumultuous wounds surrounding their relationships and like you said, they’re deeeeeeppllyyy sensitive.

I have seen a lot of smothering Scorpios, yes, but I have also met Scorpios who want nothing to do with others so idunno. What I do know is if a Scorpio really likes you they’ll smother you, period. All of their methods to prevent closeness comes from their ego in order to protect themselves, but they often self sabotage in the process of creating closeness because of their reluctance to fully show up in their rawest, most authentic form. People can kind of give up trying to understand them after a while because of their ambiguity. Ugh I love Scorpios, they aren’t for everybody, but I personally love their intensity.

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What do you think of each Ketu nak man? Which one have you had the best experience with?

I would say Mula is my favorite out of the 3. I know a few Mula guys and they all tend to have these super intellectual debriefing sessions after we do things that I find pretty amusing. They might be the only dudes I can hold a good convo with to where I don’t feel like I’m being held hostage LOL. I also love how the very specific niches of theirs that absolutely no one knows anything about. They can mansplain a bit tho (but let’s be fr when don’t men mansplain). Magha men can be fun as a concept, but can be kinda irritating to be around for more than a certain amount of time. They will talk your ear off (usually about things surrounding themselves) if they’re comfortable with you. Good to do lighthearted things with—big goofs, but sorry if you get trapped in a never-ending convo. As for Ashwinis, I love Ashwini nakshatra, I just don’t think I know any dudes with prominent Ashwini placements so I can’t say.

Ketu dudes with the most aura though? Ketu in the 1st (naturally).

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Hi

I read on one of the blogs here something about UBP and sexuality. I have UBP asc and moon and rahu in ashlesha and venus in magha. And I always wonder if I should be on OF or have a secondary instagram or x account where I can post and earn money through it. As all Saturn nak born, I also come from a poor family. So I need money to feel free and independent. I do not support SW but I still crave doing this because of some weird reason. Could be rahu in ashlesha. I haven't even had sex with anyone before. And I don't plan to. Maybe that is UBP moon, the simple cow yoni eneRgy. I just wanna put my body out there. I also crave fame. Could be venus in leo.

Help me maybe. Thanks

Hi! I would consider challenging your relationship with sex work first before you decide to jump into something like that where most people in those communities identify as sex workers. Sex work just literally is a person who engages in sexual activities for profit. Sex work isn’t all bad, but it definitely isn’t all good either and you should probably weigh out the pros and cons first. The sacred prosititue archetype and the story of Vesta came to mind when you mentioned you don’t plan on having sex. Let me know what you think.

Claire Nakti recorded that many UBPs can have interest in sex work and have an inclination towards sexual expression in some form whether it be through music, literature, film, etc. so if you feel really called to do so, I’d entertain that idea. My aunt has UBP Asc and loves pole dancing which isn’t inherently sexual, but still can be used as a form of sexual expression. I have UBP Moon with Ashlesha Jupiter and I am a very sexual person and have considered sex work quite a few times.

Your Moon and Rahu are in the 5H of expression and creativity IN Ashlesha, a nakshatra with themes of seduction and sexuality which is probably why you feel such a strong urge to explore the idea of creating an OF. The thing with Ashlesha is that sensuality comes easy to them. They can easily seduce someone without directly being suggestive of having sex—this makes them less attached to sex in comparison to UBPs. I’ve known many UBPs to have some rather freaky fantasies so that could further explain the curiousity. You can totally have an OF in a detached way.

As for yonis, Cats (Ashlesha’s yoni) are instinctually disposed to reproduce and go into heat if they don’t lol. Cows experience going into heat if they don’t reproduce as well. Serpents are also associated with both nakshatras and in some traditions the serpent is a symbol for sexual desire, male snakes have 2 pairs of sexual organs for increased fertilization success, and the list goes on. All these things can potentially hint as to why sexual creativity and expression is so embedded in these nakshatras.