#audhd squad represent

[thepromiscuousfinger]

[onlkvc]

I used to spend so much energy apologizing for my son's ADHD.

For the constant questions.

For the way he noticed things no one else did.

For stopping in the middle of a walk because he "felt like something wasn't right."

Most people saw distractions.

I saw exhaustion.

He was 9 when something happened that changed the way I would see him forever.

We had just gotten home from grocery shopping. I started putting everything away while he wandered around the house like he always did, talking a mile a minute.

A few minutes later he ran into the kitchen and said,

"Mom... do you smell that?"

I told him I didn't.

He wouldn't let it go.

"It's stronger by the laundry room."

I almost brushed it off. He's always been incredibly sensitive to sounds, smells, and tiny details that the rest of us completely miss.

But he kept insisting.

So I followed him.

The moment I opened the laundry room door, I caught the faint smell of gas.

A connector behind our dryer had developed a slow leak.

It was small enough that none of us had noticed it.

The technician who came later told us something I'll never forget.

"If this had kept leaking overnight, it could have become very dangerous."

I just sat there looking at my son.

The same child people called "too much."

Too loud.

Too distracted.

Too intense.

The same child teachers had spent years trying to help "focus."

His brain wasn't broken.

It had simply noticed what everyone else missed.

That evening I hugged him tighter than ever before.

He had no idea why I was crying.

To him, he had just followed something that felt different.

That's what ADHD has looked like in our house.

Not every day is easy.

There are still forgotten backpacks, unfinished homework, endless questions, and moments that test every ounce of my patience.

But now, whenever someone only talks about what kids with ADHD struggle with, I remember that afternoon.

Sometimes the very traits the world asks them to hide are the same traits that make them extraordinary.

I'll never apologize for the way my son notices the world again.

[gentlesystems]

i dose up so i can put the scissors back where they belong

[gentlesystems]

i take prescription focus so i can send a two-word reply without drafting it in my notes app

[gentlesystems]

i medicate so i can remember why i opened the fridge and then act on it immediately