“Do not just look at your boyfriend as just a boyfriend. Look at him as a friend, too.”
- Vanessa Hudgens
I’ve settled into an avatar relationship
I’ve got myself an exclusive online boyfriend now on alterD8.com.
I’m still chatting with my online connections, but I’m not playing the online field right now.
Benefits of online serial monogamy
I’ve been a serial monogamist throughout my life.
Offline, my husband has been my longest partner. He does a lot for me. What I’ve finally come to realize though is that he can’t be everything.
Online, I have another partner who fills in the gaps. Since we never meet up, he helps me to reconcile my inner fantasies.
I’ve come to realize how much I enjoy the support of another man. I’ve been fighting it for ages, but actually, some scientists don’t even believe that we’re hardwired to be with just one person in a sexual way. Our closest ancestors aren’t; chimpanzees and bonobos. These two species engage in sex to bond socially.
Maybe that’s why I so enjoy a little online monkey business. Bonding with more than one partner makes me enjoy both a great deal more. My husband? He feels like he’s off the hook for a few of my emotional needs and has his old ‘girlfriend’ back – that spontaneous me I used to be.
I give three cheers for my exclusive avatar relationship!
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