We detailed to you the issues in our relationship, which included but were not limited to:
Your emotional infidelity. You're engaged and collared, and again, I reiterate: IF YOU ARE NOT HAPPY IN A RELATIONSHIP WITH YOUR FIANCEE/DOMME, GET OUT. Don't ask one of your friends who you happen to be super thirsty for to help you drop into subspace. That made JJ incredibly uncomfortable, by the way.
Putting all your focus on JJ. Don't give us bullshit and say that you weren't. Magan isn't supposed to be using Skype and you know that. I don't have you on Skype and you know that. Therefore, saying you're getting on Skype was you trying to get JJ's attention, nevermind the fact that JJ is 1) Not interested in you AT ALL, and 2) datemating someone. JJ's my matesprit. You needed to back off, and there's a reason why this was brought up.
Playing dumb about JJ and I being together? Like the chat logs are hella gay, dude, how could you have "missed something" or been confused about that? Especially when JJ repeatedly called me their partner and Magan called me their datemate???
Shifting your focus to Magan after it was explicitly stated that JJ and I were officially a couple, despite Magma also making it plain that they were not interested in you. This being after
Ignoring Magan so much and making them feel so shitty that they frequently cried and felt like they didn't matter. You want to fix things, and you want a second chance, but this is more than your second with them. You can't make someone feel like shit over and over and over and expect them to keep welcoming you back.
Pushing YOUR kinks on us even though we'd stated we were squicked by them. I can tolerate anything in small amounts, but not all the time. D/s, petplay, and Littles can be cool in theory, but do indeed squick Magan and JJ, and they'd told you that, but still had Little or Pet Muses shoved at them.
Speaking through your muses instead of addressing your problems maturely and responsibly like an adult. I get that you're not equipped to deal with everything yet, and that roleplay is an escape, but you take character bleed to a scary level, and it's really, really annoying. ESPECIALLY when you're pushing your jealousy, mental/physical health and god fucking knows what else on the characters that you play instead of talking to someone and getting help.
Being hostile toward me. Maybe you didn't see it that way. But I saw you saying things to MY partner (read: not YOURS) and putting yourself before me. Idk. Maybe I'm just being sensitive. Maybe I see what Magan's mom was saying about you not being happy until nobody is in the picture but my matesprit to give you attention and pour shit into your endless black hole of mentally unhealthy need.
I'm sure that I'm missing something because I'm just so pissed off right now, but those are some of the issues that we brought up to you. WHEN WE DID THIS, you did not apologize for anything. In fact, when you apologized to Magan, you invalidated their feelings and didn't apologize for ANYTHING that they said had hurt their feelings.
You didn't apologize to any of us. Did you really think that you could get away with sending us all the same copied and pasted "apology" and that we wouldn't corroborate the story and figure out what was going on? Apologies need personalization, and the lack of that was so disgusting that when you came into my ask with another ""apology"" that you copied and pasted to JJ and Magan, I didn't acknowledge it. I deleted it. Because you need to give someone time to fucking cool down.
We do still have issues. We're going to continue to have issues, because you're immature, and try as you might, you're not going to be able to ""fix"" things because you're not equipped to handle that because you don't know how to act like anything but a child or a pet.
I used to give second chances. Really, I did. But then people kept making me feel the way that you made Magan feel. And with the way things were going, I'm not going to let you try and wedge your way into my life like a sliver that's going to fester under my skin. So sorry, but I'm not sorry.
