#avoiding love

[growingasweknowit]

‘I’m so afraid,' She said turning her head towards his, 'I just don’t think I’ll be able to stop if I fall in love with you now.’

J. M. M.

[mostlyfoodreally-blog]

Avoiding love checklist

Rules: You can't commit to liking someone or entering a relationship unless all these things have been checked off. 

Do you find them sexually attractive?

Can they make you laugh even if you don't want to?

Do they find you funny?

Are they equally intellectually intelligent?

Are they emotionally and spiritually mature?

Can you hold a deep conversation with them?

Are you personalities similar?

Do they respect you?

Do your cultural backgrounds conflict in any way?

Would you let them meet all of your family members? 

Are they kind and caring?

Do you like their friends? (do they have a stable group of friends)

Do they lie alot?

Do you trust them?

Can you already see any future problems?

Do they understand your views on relationship topics?

Are they financially stable?

Do they understand and respect your plans?

Do they honestly know your real personality?

Would you marry them? 

[medyopogiperobastos]

Avoiding love just makes the matter worse, harder and more hurtful.

[gaychaelrogers-stewart]