grabs baby plurals by the shoulders. listen to me. i don't care who's fronting, take a note or smth but listen to me. you're not broken. you're not unholy. you're not tainted or dirty or a monster. how media depicts plurality is something to be desired. you are not defined by whatever tf that m night shawarmalong motherfucker put out a few years ago that was such a god awful representation of systems that it actively makes me seethe. you are not defined by what you see on sysblr either. systems are systems, no matter what the origin or inter-headspace relations are or how alters came to be. you exist as you are and that's okay. do not let outside forces dictate how you should experience your plurality. do not let outside forces tell you your origins are wrong or incorrect. do not try and fit yourself into a box that a lot of people with plurality or who identify as plural try and fit others in. no one has the right to do that, let alone some stranger on the internet playing white knight.
you're okay. you're going to be okay. this is all new and its going to be scary and its going to take some getting used to. be literate in your research. consider your sources and who's telling them. because chances are, its either a very helpful resource or someone trying to push a very harmful agenda.
stay safe and don't let anyone try and tell you your plurality is "wrong".
-Tomie 🖤
