I'm so freaking frustrated. I got into an argument with someone on Twitter about the dynamics of s&m relationships... And they compared it to male and female domestic abuse. WHAT?! Last time I fucking checked, S&M RELATIONSHIPS HAVE CONSENT AND BOUNDARIES, DOMESTIC ABUSE DOES NOT! And when I proceeded to say this, they knocked off consent and said that desires don't exist in a vacuum, aka meaning that s&m relationships would not be a thing without an underlying of domestic abuse in the relationship. IM SORRY WHAT?? No bitch I don't consent to domestic abuse wtf?! When I read my s&m fanfiction, do you think that I want to be abused too? No bitch I'd throw fucking hands and never EVER wish that upon myself.
Aka the moral of the story is stop kink shaming and MIND YOUR FUCKING OWN.















