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Delena vs. Bamon (round 1)
Based on sex...
Based on friendship...
Based on co-dependency...
Based on complicity...
Based on justification...
Based on confrontation...
Round 2, coming soon!
Fun bonus!
Delusioned people: “Delena is true love!”
Reality: Be like...
Coherent people: “Bamon is awesome!”
Reality: Be like...
She deserved so much better
Delena... Valentine’s smackdown!
In the spirit of Valentine’s Day (which, like this ship, I’m not very fond of), let’s take a closer look at Delena, or more accurately Dullena; even better Damnlena, cause it’s sure as hell a relationship that was damned!
Where to begin with these two? I’m sure anyone with common sense and criteria knows the toxicity of this relationship. And, how utterly frustrating it was to have it shoved down our throats throughout the series under the pretension of true love, epic love (the audacity!). We can thank Plec’s highly misconception of love for that one!
So, I wanted to go into the subject from a different angle, by describing why Delena fans believe this relationship is true love, and work from there… Ah, this is gonna be fun! =)
I’ve read so many heated discussions in which Delena stans defend their ship and explain why Delena is the definition of true love. And I got to say, I read some pretty disturbing arguments… do people really think this is love? That’s scary! Others were just out crazy, ridiculous, and quite funny actually! Anyway, let’s breakdown a few:
Delena fan: “He met her first.”
Answer: Really? This is an argument? How is this even relevant? Damon met Elena before Stefan did… oh, then I guess this really must be true love! Love has nothing to do with first, middle, last… So, given the nonsense of this “argument”, we can throw it right out the window. Next!
Delena fan: “He was a stranger and he told her to get everything she wanted from life.”
Answer: Well, if you are a 16-year-old girl talking to a strange man in the middle of the night, in the middle of nowhere, maybe your instincts should be telling you to run! Who gives a fuck about his advice! Another case of pure absurdity, so this one is also out. What else you got?
Delena fan: “Technically he's all 'wrong' for Elena, but he loves her. She brings out the best in him. He trusts her.”
I love the highlight on the “wrong”, just hilarious, good to know that at least some Delena fans have some sense of humor. So, she brings out the best in him? O.K, let’s name just a few things Damon has done for or with Elena and determine if these are features of a person at their best:
- Killed her brother out of spite
- Turned her into a vampire, against her will
- Betrayed and lied to his brother
- Killed her friend Aaron
- Lied and manipulated her (multiple times)
- Taunted and threatened her friends (multiple times)
- Got her to switch her humanity switch off, and well, you know what happened.
- Kidnapped and tried to kill her brother, again
The list can go on, but I think it’s safe to say Elena did not bring the best out in Damon, he was as selfish and egocentric, as usual, if not more, with all things involving Elena. As for the “trust” thing, well if you have to lie, manipulate, and pretend to be someone else with someone, I’m pretty sure trust is not what you feel towards them. So, as far as this argument goes, sorry but you are very wrong. Next!
Delena fan: He never tried to hurt her, because deep down inside there's always been a part of him that feels for her.
Answer: When I read this one I just fucking laughed to tears! Do we really need to provide proof? I would hope not, but given that Delena fans seem to be blind to so many things, here we go again (as mentioned above): killed her brother, kidnapped, tortured and tried to kill her brother again, killed her friend from Whitmore, tormented and tortured her psychologically, taunted and threatened her friends; and on and on.... Sorry, no matter how hard you try to avoid, nop, wrong! Next!
Delena fan: “He always took three seconds to realize Katherine wasn’t her, unlike the others.”
Answer: Uhm, did you forget (or just blocked it from your mind) that Damon went on a killing tantrum because “Elena” aka Katherine, had broken up with him? Out! Next!
Delena fan: “He likes her because she knows how to laugh.”
Answer: Hmmm?! Elena is one of the characters with the least sense of humor on the show... better luck with the next one.
Delena fan: “She was the first one to feel sorry for him about Katherine.”
Answer: What is this really telling us? I mean, come on, pretty much the worse feeling you can have for someone is pity!! Perhaps this has a lot more to do with Elena’s pathos of justifying the actions of others to make herself feel better. So, another one bites the dust!
Delena fan: She's his humanity.
Answer: Another lol with this one… so, I’ll say it again, Damon has done some of the most fucked up shit (“humanity” on) in the name of or because of Elena.
Delena fan: She saved him, and he saved her.
Answer: From what exactly? Not sure what you mean, please do explain!
Delena fan: He didn't compel her because he wanted it to be real.
Answer: That this was even an argument completely blew my mind; it’s like saying: he didn’t beat her so it’s fine... WTF!!!!!!! Really, the conception people have of love really is worrisome!
Delena: She always knew everything Damon's done, and still loved him.
Answer: More like justified him to make HERSELF feel better about it, never actually held him accountable or made him deal with his decisions, unlike Bonnie, just so you know ;)
O.K, at one point I thought, I have to stop. If I read any more of this BS I’m going to go crazy! But mostly just get really depressed at thinking that there are so many people out there that actually believe this type of toxic relationship is actually true love!
So, there it is, just a brief un-valentine for Valentine’s… Delena is one of the worse representations I’ve seen of true love and the fact that Plec portrayed it as such pisses me off till this day! Sorry, Julie, we won’t buy into your bullshit! Thank god for fanfic that can set you straight!
Happy Valentine’s from Bamon4Bamily! Wishing everyone love and respect! And stay tuned, TVD S9 Ep.1 (part 3) will be posted this weekend, hope you stop by and enjoy! =)
One of my fav Bamon scenes =)
TVD Season 9 fanfic, 9x03 (part 1), coming soon!! Sorry it has taken some time, still editing some stuff. =)
The letter scene...
Me, every single time I watch it...
Beauty of Bamon magic =) Another sneak peek at TVD S9 fanfic...
DAMON: (Vulnerable) Bon Bon... what does this mean?
BONNIE: Well... guess there must be something in the air...
It was at this exact moment when he realized just how much he loved her. After so many years he had finally found his soulmate, and although it had been right in front him this whole time, this was the moment he knew she felt the same the way...
To get a better sense of the feel, listen to this song, which is what is playing in Damon’s mind during this scene:
https://youtu.be/NGFToiLtXro
She is my home...
Can’t stop myself today, I’m inspired!!! Another Bamon endgame sneak peek!!!!!
TVS S9 fanfic and more to come... Hope you stop by, read and enjoy! =) @bamon4bamily
TVD 9x01 part 2 continuation. Hope you enjoy! =)
Darius walks in and sits down at their table.
DARIUS: (Talking about the bourbon) Is there enough for me?
DAMON: (To Darius, not knowing who he is) Excuse me, Waldo (he has a striped red and white sweater), why don’t you go find someone else to find you. Can’t you see we are in the middle of a deep conversation here?! Shu-Shu!
BONNIE: (With a soft laugh) Damon! This is Darius, the friend I told you about...
DAMON: Oh! My bad (smirk). This is the genius witchy-psychic guy you met in Ireland?
BONNIE: It is, so be nice! Offer him a drink (hits him with her elbow).
DAMON: (Whispering to Bonnie) But this is from my special reserve. (Bonnie gives him a look, he reluctantly asks for a glass) Tom, please bring me another glass.
DARIUS: Actually, if it’s possible, I would prefer gin.
DAMON: (With a soft voice) It figures… Tom, please bring our friend Waldo here a gin (gives Tom a “he is crazy for ordering that” look). (To Darius) I’m Damon, Bonnie’s BFF (shakes his hand, then mumbles), in case you didn’t infer that from interrupting our conversation… (Bonnie hits him with her elbow again)
DARIUS: Oh, yes, I am well aware of who you are. I am Darius, one of Bon-Bon’s (mocking Damon) current closest friends, in case you didn’t infer that from the last months we have been traveling the world together (Damon gives him his signature “I don’t like you” look).
BONNIE: O.K, I think we are definitely going to need another bottle…
Alaric, Caroline, and Matt come into the Grill.
CAROLINE: Bonnie!!! (Runs to her) Oh my god, come here! (Gives her a big hug) I’ve missed you so much! You are never allowed to leave me for so long, ever again!
BONNIE: Care! I’ve missed you too! I’m so happy you came!
CAROLINE: Of course I was coming silly! You think I’d miss this reunion? No way in hell!
DAMON: Wait, what? They all knew you were coming home? Why was I the only one that didn’t know this?
BONNIE: I wanted to surprise you. (Damon smirks)
ALARIC: Bonnie! (Hugs her). Finally, my sane drinking buddy is back! Thank god!
DAMON: Um, excuse me?
ALARIC: You know I love you buddy, but you are completely insane, I needed some balance.
DAMON: Say what you will Ric, you can’t get enough of me.
MATT: My turn (hugs Bonnie). I’m so happy you are back Bon! Mystic Falls just isn’t the same without you! I missed you!
BONNIE: Matt, I missed you too, Matt! And congrats on the wedding!!
MATT: Thank you, Bon.
BONNIE: Everyone, this is my friend Darius.
CAROLINE: This is Darius? I thought you said he was a witch Bonnie, not a model! (Darius laughs, Damon rolls his eyes)
DARIUS: The famous Caroline, a pleasure to meet you. Bonnie talks about you all the time.
CAROLINE: Oh, trust me, the pleasure is all mine. (Lip signs to Bonnie “hot!”)
BONNIE: Care (gives her a look and whispers), you are making him blush…
DARIUS: It’s fine Bon (flirty smile, kisses Caroline’s hand), you are as lovely, if not more, then Bonnie described. (To Matt and Alaric) Hello, (gives them a handshake) it’s great to finally meet you all. So, this is the gang, ha?
CAROLINE: Well, not all, we are missing one. (To herself) Well, two actually…
DARIUS: Oh yes, Elena. Is she coming? I’m really looking forward to meeting her. I must admit, I have never met a Doubleganger before, very excited.
BONNIE: She can’t make it tonight, she is volunteering at the Hospital. With everything that’s going on, they have their hands full, but she told me she will try to visit over the weekend.
ALARIC: (Changing the subject) O.K, well let’s get some drinks!
BONNIE: Wait, so where are Radka and Khuyana? I’m dying to meet them!
MATT: Khuyana is on a business trip, she’ll be back in a few days.
ALARIC: And Radka was exhausted, but you’ll meet her tomorrow at the school.
CAROLINE: O.K everyone, this is mine and Alaric’s night off, so let’s get crazy people! Tom, get us some shots! Oh, and its karaoke night, so you know what that means!
DARIUS: (To Bonnie) What did I just get myself into? (Bonnie laughs and tabs her drink against his).
The gang laughs, sings and drinks. At one moment, well into the night when everyone is quite drunk, Damon picks a song and drags Bonnie to the stage to karaoke to Queen’s: You are my best friend. While they are singing, Darius talks to Caroline, who is very drunk by this time.
DARIUS: (Looking at Bonnie and Damon) So nothing ever happened between those two?
CAROLINE: Who? Damon and Bonnie? Oh, no! O.K, if I’m being totally honest, we have all thought about it at one time or another… I mean, just look at them, platonic, really? But, as far as we know, nothing has ever happened... They are just really, really, really close friends, drinking buddies, besties, the dynamic duo, I guess? Who knows, their relationship is as weird as it gets. Oh god! Please don’t tell Bonnie I said any of this...
DARIUS: Don’t worry, your secret is safe with me. But, I can see what you mean…
Alaric and Matt sit down with Darius and Caroline
ALARIC: Those two really crack me up (referring to Damon and Bonnie). God, I’ve really missed just having some fun and hanging out…
CAROLINE: I know, right? We haven’t had a crazy night since… who knows when!
DARIUS: Oh, yes, Bonnie told me, you have twins, right?
CAROLINE: We do, two adorable girls. Well, when they want to be, sometimes they can be a huge pain in our asses.
DARIUS: So, how long have you been together?
ALARIC: Oh, it’s not like that. It’s actually a pretty crazy story, but you definitely need to be drunker for that one!
DARIUS: Well, then we will leave that story for another night… So, Bonnie tells me your girls are siphons, from the Gemini coven? How interesting…
CAROLINE: They are, but they are not an easy pair to handle!
DARIUS: I trust they aren’t.
MATT: So, Darius, how did you meet Bonnie?
DARIUS: I met her in Antrim, a small town in Ireland where my family is from. She was doing research on a very ancient spell, and as it turns out, my ancestors were actually the ones that created it. So, I taught her everything I knew, showed her the family’s grimoire, and well, it all grew from there.
ALARIC: What kind of spell is it?
DARIUS: It’s an extremely powerful linking spell that only psychic-witches can perform, and from those, only the most powerful ones. It takes an extreme amount of energy to sustain it. No one has been able to successfully perform it without perishing…
MATT: And what exactly does it link them to?
DARIUS: To any number of minds, and by doing so, the psychic-witch can have the power to control whoever they are linked to, and pretty much make them do whatever it thinks them to do…
CAROLINE: That sounds scary…
DARIUS: It is… and it can get even scarier if you believe in myths. Legend has it that the “chosen one”, or in other words, the psychic-witch that successfully performs the linking spell, can have access to a primal energy source known as the “alpha-omega” … (with sarcasm), what a surprise, right?!
MATT: And where is this so-called energy source supposed to be?
DARIUS: It is believed to be contained inside a crystal, somewhere in the world. No one has ever given it a serious thought; it’s just a myth, Matt.
ALARIC: Well, it wasn’t that long ago when vampires were thought to be just a myth too, so…
DARIUS: No, that was ignorance Ric. For many years secret societies and people in power, have been very well aware of the existence of supernatural beings… but this “alfa-omega” is way out there with dragons and gargoyles.
CAROLINE: I don’t get it, what is so extraordinary about this energy and the link or witch-psychic, or whatever...?
DARIUS: Well the “believers” think that if you mix the right ingredients, the “link” can have the power to merge with this energy source and practically become the most powerful being in existence…
CAROLINE: O.K, that definitely sounds insane!
DARIUS: That’s because it is. The linking spell, however, and the power it can give to the right psychic-witch, is in fact very real.
ALARIC: Yes, I’ve researched that kind of spell before but couldn’t find any reliable documentation. So, you a psychic-witch, like Bonnie?
DARIUS: I am, but I’m not nearly as powerful. She sometimes doesn’t grasp just how amazing and truly magnificent she is. You are all very lucky to have her as a friend, and most definitely not as an enemy, I wouldn’t wish that on anybody.
MATT: So, have you ever attempted to perform this spell?
DARIUS: Oh no, I am well aware of my limitations… I may seem a bit dark Matt, but I’m not suicidal.
ALARIC: Wait, what did you say your last name was?
DARIUS: I didn’t, but it’s Bennion.
ALARIC: From the Bennion coven?
DARIUS: I take it you are acquainted with our history?
ALARIC: Somewhat familiar. There is not a lot of information on your background…
DARIUS: I know… my family has always been very protective about letting the world know about our heritage.
CAROLINE: O.K, enough with the occult studies talk! We are supposed to be having fun! So, spill (to Darius), is there really nothing going on there? (Referring to him and Bonnie) I find that hard to believe.
DARIUS: (Smiles) No Caroline, nothing is going on there. Like Damon, I am just a really, really, really close friend.
CAROLINE: Oh, come on! Don’t tell me you haven’t thought about it! I mean, just look at her for god sakes, she is gorgeous! Are you honestly telling me it hasn’t crossed your mind? Because let me tell you, I would totally be all over that! I actually have been crushing on her for years! (Everyone laughs, we love unapologetic drunk Caroline!)
DARIUS: She is breathtakingly beautiful, a true goddess if ever I’ve seen one. The most extraordinary woman I have ever met… But, we are, just friends.
CAROLINE: Well, then you are a fool for not trying.
DARIUS: That, I most definitely am.
ALARIC. O.K, this is getting awkward… I think we need more bourbon.
DARIUS: Couldn’t agree more, but I’m a gin type of guy.
ALARIC: Done. Tom, please send us another round.
Damon and Bonnie come sit down.
DARIUS: Great performance, very entertaining. You are quite the dynamic duo.
DAMON: That’s right! We are the Bonnie & Clyde, Scooby & Shaggy, Holmes & Watson, Mulder & Skully, pb&j, of the operation.
DARIUS: (Whispers to Damon) I’m guessing Bonnie is the hero, and you are the sidekick, I mean, being human and all. (Damon gives him a look). Just kidding pal.
MATT: So, guys, I’m going to call it a night, it’s very late and I have to be at the Mayor’s office early in the morning. We’ll team back tomorrow at the school.
CAROLINE: But Matt, please don’t make it so early. I might need more shut-eye time to recover, O.K?
MATT: (Laughs) Sure Care. Alright everyone, good night. Bon, welcome back. (he leaves).
BONNIE: I guess we should be heading out too, I’m a bit jet-lagged and can use some zzzz.
CAROLINE: Wait, where are you staying?
BONNIE: At Mystic Grand, for now, my new apartment won’t be ready for a few days.
CAROLINE: Oh no you aren’t! None sense! You are staying with us, I mean come on, the Salvatore mansion has like thousands of rooms, right Damon?
DAMON: Definitely Bon-Bon, we won’t take no for an answer, you are staying at the house. (To Darius) Don’t worry, the hotel is close to the mansion.
CAROLINE: He is not staying at the hotel either, Damon. Darius, trust me, you are going to love the house.
DAMON: (Whispers to Caroline) But it’s my house.
CAROLINE: Actually, It’s our house, Damon, and we are being nice, O.K?
DAMON: Fine, just give him a room far away from mine.
ALARIC: O.K gang, since we are all going to the same place, I’ll order us an uber van.
TO BE CONTINUED NEXT WEEK... STAY TUNED =)
