I think people need to stop making straw men altogether. I'm not talking about the actual straw man fallacy but idk the word for it. The actual straw man fallacy is like when you say "Well there are reasons to dislike oranges, here's why: " and someone comes under it and says "this person HATES oranges." It's a misrepresentation of your argument. You never said you hated oranges, you never even said an opinion on oranges, you said that there are reasons someone could dislike oranges. People do the straw man fallacy all the time, believe me, but that isn't what I'm talking about. I'm talking about when people create a fictional opponent to get mad at. Like an out-of-context, entirely triggered by the person posting it, "us orange lovers get told x, but then later we get told y." These posts hurt far more than they help. Show screenshots of someone telling you x and then switching up and saying y, I beg of you. Just saying that something happens doesn't mean it is, and now you're possibly just tilting at windmills. You need to have somebody say the one thing and then say the other thing, and have them all in context. It's basic media responsibility. Also, don't make up an argument unless it is an extremely common catchphrase you don't need to cite. You don't have to cite the phrase "trans rights are human rights" as everyone has seen someone saying that. You do need to cite where someone said(I'm coming up with a batshit example here) "I believe that trans rights matter more than basic rights to food and water" because who says that? You can't just say "I've seen some people say this", you need to say "this person said this, at this time, on this account, this date, etc.", because otherwise you and the reader may be getting pissed at someone who doesn't exist and conflating someone who does exist with said nonexistent person.
TL;DR: when discussing what you believe is a common argument, thoroughly cite someone specifically using that argument, unless it is a catchphrase.