#be bully-proof

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My Journey so far with latest update

The amount of self-acceptance you have could be linked to how bully-proof you are. If you look back at bullying experiences that you have overcome, what would you say has changed? For example, when I was at school, people used to make fun of a mole on my left cheek. However, i grew to appreciate it as I got older and now no one could bully me about it and no one ever tries. If they did I would…

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Bullies will face a less satisfying response to their bullying behaviour

Bullies will face a less satisfying response to their bullying behaviour

Why hitting back at bullies won’t work

What is true for one person is valid. It is their point of view. We all have a point of view that is true and how we see the world. There are things you can discover by accepting that your point of view can be shaped by previous experiences, being dominated by people who want to impose their point of view on you or by fear. What would be best would be a…

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The difference between "hitting back" and "reacting"

The difference between “hitting back” and “reacting”

The difference between “hitting back” (which they don’t want and will stop them) and “reacting” (which is what they want and they will keep going) is thus:

Hitting back is premeditated, in other words an action planned to match an attack, not respond to it.

Hitting back has equal clout as the attack.

Hitting back is “defending yourself”, although schools and worplaces particularly try to not see…

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Here is a simple guideline to help identify bullying

Here is a simple guideline to help identify bullying

Here is a simple guideline to help identify bullying:

Any and I mean absolutely anything done or said to you that you don’t like could be bullying.

Yes, you might not like being asked for tax, but as a responsible citizen you know you have obligations. However, if you suspect foul play, know your rights then take steps to halt any bullying as quickly as possible.

How to know what “steps” to take:

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My ultimate definition of bullying

My ultimate definition of bullying

My ultimate definition is thus:

The transportation of the bully from a feeling of powerlessness to that of being in control.

In the instance of men over women, women give birth, which has been turned by the Catholic Faith (male dominated) into the Original Sin. Our very existence is treated like the biggest insult against God and humanity. That’ll learn ‘em. (us women).

To feel in control, the…

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The problem is, bullying is a trait of human nature

The problem is, bullying is a trait of human nature

The problem is, bullying is a trait of human nature which was learned by people, probably way back, to snatch booty and to control and dominate others.

The only ways to stop bullying are:

1. To ignore it if this makes it go away. If that fails then:

2. To hit back by whatever means needed. Hit it where it hurts.

If you watch any film or programme wth bullying content, the means needed to stop…

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Why Better to Learn to Be Bully-Proof than to Try To Stop Bullying

Why Better to Learn to Be Bully-Proof than to Try To Stop Bullying

One thing about bullying is it takes so many different forms and appears in so many guises, some are totally unexpected, that they are difficult to spot.

However, if you can spot bullying the way to stop it becomes very simple.

Bullying can be:

Traditional schoolyard.

Giving someone too much work in the office

A parent criticising a child

Imposing unsolicited advice on someone

A war

A government…

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