Lose weight for YOU
Did you know some girls themselves starve themselves just for one guy? Or in some situations, more than one? Now, it's completely fine to lose weight for guys, as long as there is some other reasons behind it, healthy reasons. Like, I don't know... doing it for yourself? Girls, if a guy really loves you for you then he won't care a flying fuck about your weight. Sure, get healthy, but realise, he loves you, for YOU. If he doesn't, he isn't worth your time. And he clearly doesn't deserve you. You aren't crushing him when you sit on his lap, you aren't suffacating him when your hanging off his shoulder, you are not killing him when he's giving you a piggy back ride. They're big boys(no pun intented), they can take it. They love showing off their muscles. And you aren't dead weight. A 120-150-170 pound girl is not the same as 120-150-170 pound peice of metal. NOT THE SAME. Like I said, sure, lose weight, get healthy, be the best version of yourself, hell, make him one of your reasons for doing so. Just please make sure you are doing it for yourself too. Be kind to one another and keep being your beautiful self:) I love you all:)