Hey sorry if this is odd since we don't know each other but I went to buy some of your bday stuff on Etsy and maybe I'm doing it wrong because it just wants to send it to my address. I'm not about to ask where you live but if I can get your email I can send you an Etsy gift card?
Feel free to ignore if you find this uncomfortable, hope you have a happy birthday! I've got similiar hang ups about receiving gifts, so I get it.
@beauteousevil omg THANK YOU, I totally wouldn't have known if you hadn't mentioned it, also holy shit I'm sorry that you have similar hang-ups but you're so lovely for this! I googled it and created a "registry" instead, I think it shows first name and city but I'm fine with that, hopefully this is more helpful: https://www.etsy.com/registry/MTcxOTI5MTc0fDI2MDcwODYyNw