#beckefunsized

[intothespiderbottom]

I was diagnosed with Celiac's a little over a year ago which has forced me to abandon my love of traditional pastas. You get used to the gluten free variety... But pasta made from rice and quinoa will never not be weird. I hope you enjoyed my pasta rant. 😘

Aw, that's no fun! Well, it's shocking for me to say this but it's true, there are other awesomer foods out there besides traditional pasta! LIKE CORNDOGS YEAH? I LOVE CORNDOGS. xx

[intothespiderbottom]

Light petting leading to passionate wine drinking.

How would one get you into bed?

REVERSE ASK GAME

[intothespiderbottom]

I'm a fan girl who has tricked the normals into letting me teach high school. My kids have no idea how thoroughly I indoctrinate them #Destiel has come up in a classroom setting #Don't tell, I can lose my job

You're a naughty naughty teacher Bless you

[ccreatures]

Do you just have specific blogs, that you don't know in real life, but you've both been comfortable mutual followers for a hella long time, and you never talk to each other, but you both know and acknowledge each other are there.

I'm talking about beckefunsized and universal-noire I feel like we are cofortable acquaintances that sit and blog in each other's company without talking. I like it.

[ccreatures]

15!!!

Yay okay. @w@

[revangerang]

I'm coming to see you! I'm coming to see you! I'm coming to see you!

HOORAY~~~~!!!!!!! :DDDDDDD

[revangerang]

Becke and Becca

Do you know how funny it is that you two follow each other? Do you guys even know who each other are? lmao

Becke is my "cousin" from AZ.

Becca is my bff from high school.

I should have known you two would get along!

[revangerang]

I liked what you had to say about abortion. I am pro-choice, but prefer adoption.. There are people out there who can't have their own children & who want them desperately. No one should be forced to have a baby, but there are alternatives. Imagine finding a couple who want the baby & can afford the medical bills. I wouldn't say having a child is irresponsible. Choosing to keep or find a family for a baby is a great alternative to abortion. People wait years for babies! Give them an opportunity.

This may be true in some cases, but not all. People don't want to adopt children of "troubled" people. They want babies of perfect little middle-class white young people who can't take care of them yet. I don't know the figures right now and it's 2 in the morning, but the percentage of POC children who get adopted is very low. So they go into foster care or stay in orphanages until they're 16. Then they get thrown out into the real world, and they end up much worse than those children I spoke of previously. And the cycle continues.

And many women lose their jobs for being pregnant. How will they feed themselves, let alone eat enough for two if they have no job? Many people do not have family to help them, either. They may just be estranged from an abusive family, or their family may be struggling to get by like they are. Where will she go then? And after all of it is over, what does she have to show for it?

So sure, for middle-class white people who have a family to support them through their hard time, adoption may be a good choice for them. But again it is a CHOICE. And even if they do adopt out, there are so many side effects to giving birth. There is postpartum depression, for one thing. Some people never recover from it. I have read horror stories of mothers who have been treated like shit by doctors and told that they deserve the pain they're going through while giving birth (even married people have been told this, not just single mothers or "sluts"), of women who have been badly injured while pregnant or while giving birth who have never recovered. It's not just about gaining a few pounds, there are changes that you may never recover from. 

All I'm saying is that that is precisely why it is a decision that should be taken seriously. All the facts should be taken into consideration, not just the nice parts of babies. And that is why it should be every uterus-owner's choice whether to have an adoption or not to.