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@abcinkorea said: Sounds similar to my family. But once I moved out here, they’ve become understanding in not asking for money… Hope all turns out ok for you.
@bentleydecavia said: Being frank with parents is difficult, but stay strong. :)
@beenjint said: /hugs stay strong, hopefully your Mum will understand your side of the situation.
@flissyboots said: keep strong. it’s hard dealing with parents like that, i don’t know your situation but i def sympathise with problems my mother also had/has/will have
Thanks so much for all of the encouragement. I feel a lot better now, especially since I just got a response/had a conversation with her. She's not angry or hurt, she admitted that everything I said was true, but she didn't really seem too convinced that she needed to do anything further to change her lifestyle - she just kept trying to reassure me that she's already trying.
I don't want my mom to get to a point where she stops asking for help when she needs it; in fact, I'd much rather her ask me than put herself through the shame of asking a friend or acquaintance. But I want smart choices from now on. That's all I'm asking.
