Once someone has been mean to you, it is easy to harbor your anger, hurt, and frustration inside of you. That can sometimes be displaced onto others if not disposed properly. Fighting fire with fire just makes larger flames, sometimes, they even become impossible to put out. You don’t always know why they have been mean to you or why they have said or done certain things. Assumptions made about others can be false and most of the time they are. Be cognizant of the fact that each person you meet could be struggling in his or her own way and being kind might remind them that they, too, should be kind. It is much more challenging to hold your tongue and speak positively toward others, especially those who have wronged you or mistreated you. Being kind is more challenging and more honorable. While being kind sometimes feels as though you are allowing meanness to go unnoticed or unchecked, it does not mean you’re allowing others to walk all over you. You are simply rising above in a different way. Your words or actions can last forever on others. Sometimes it doesn’t feel permanent to you, but to the other person, it could be everlasting. Maybe not right away, especially when the tip of your tongue is holding itself back from spewing your true feelings. But afterwards, you’ll be glad you didn’t say something you can’t take back and you’ll be glad you offered kindness instead of unnecessary meanness. Being mean doesn’t solve anything, Being nice can’t hurt either. Even if nothing is solved, at least you know you didn’t make it worse. Have Lovely day ahead as you are gorgeous soul.. ❤🙏❤ #bekindnomatterwhat
