I dont like the trans fem ralsei theory/ headcanon
I'm saying this as a transmasc coming from experience, this headcanon is incredibly bigoted. It forces the idea that a girly feminine guy MUST be trans in order for him to like girly things. There are TONS of trans women rep in media now, but very little of transmasc fems or fem cis men. Its forcing people to think dress = girl and suit = boy, when that's not how the world works or gender identity.
If a guy likes the color pink, likes to play with dolls and wear dresses but still goes by he/him, then im sorry to break this to you, but he's still a man, and erasing his masculinity for transness, is kinda gross.
This headcanon/theory is really debilitating and harmful to fem men and fem trans guys. I need more people to understand that gender expression doesnt not mean gender identity.