This person IS you. This person is THERE for you. This person LOVES you. This person is your BFF. -Ash Wilson 2017
I was just thinking the other day about who really means the most for me and who I would give most of my will. Obviously my millions of sisters can have my personal items. For my guardians, I would put some money into an account for their retirement. But who would get the most? I was going through my “list” of friend. Oh that wasn’t a typo, I literally have 1 friend *cries*. Nope I’m just kidding! I’m not shameful of having one friend because she is my best friend! I would give her some of my personal items, all of my money, my journals and notebooks, my weird collection, etc, etc. You see its because I hate my family... Wait rewind! You see its not because I hate my family, well.... OK one more time. You see my best friend has earned it. She earned it through those sleepless nights where we would do a million Musical.ly’s and then cringe and delete them the next day. Through those drives where the music was so loud the car would shake. Through those depressing moments where we would vent about hating life. Through those hours of nonstop laughing at a corny joke. And I mean I did share some happy moments with my sisters but I didn’t have all of them with the same sister. The Happy moments are spread among all of my sisters but my BFF holds the cake with the most happiest moments.
And even things come between (groundings, breaks etc...) you for example:
Now even though there are few they are big ones. So here is how you get over it.
#1: I know you hate me for saying this but there’s nothing you can do. Anyone under 18 can talk to their parents... But if they won’t change then just contact your friend and tell them. Oh yeah both of you are going to be ticked off, sick to be in the same room with your parents even! But, eventually it will move on and you can see your best friend again, because if you’ re truly best friends they’ll wait for this ban to be over. If 1 person is 18 and the other is younger the relationship will feel 1 sided for the 18 year old because they feel like they’re carrying around this kid with unreasonable parents. Just follow the rules when hanging out with her (curfew, schedules, boundaries...) But you can get in trouble while not being with your friend and you can just take that punch to the gut punishment and get it over with, most of the time your older friend will understand and wait for you.
#2&3: I’ve been in so many situations where your friends try to break away you and your BFF because they’re jealous? Rude? I don’t know why, but my advice is to stick like glue because once you endure through the drama they’ll give up. It may take a while, but stay together because if not then they won and they will force a fake best friend relationship with you. Boys will do it unintentionally because most of the time its a boy leading on your best friend so she tries to get with him by doing everything with him, just support her but remind her that it might not end well. Keep hanging out with her until it dawns on her that it was a bad mistake, and she’ll be crying on your shoulder.
#4&5: Your moods and age can rip you and your best friend apart so differently. Moods can cause you to separate temporarily and fast but most of the time you move on. With age its permanent and slow. Over time you start to like different things, you both have different goals, and before you know it you don’t hang out anymore. Then BOOM! You don’t see each other anymore, you don’t talk to them anymore, you have your new friends and so do they. You both moved on without knowing it or wanting it.
But right now you've been through thick and thin, your Bosom Buddies and that’s what matters!
This was dedicated to my BFF Draya! Thank you so much for the laughs and tears, the drama and fun, the rainy days and sunny days, the curfews and freedom. You are my sister from another mother, my world, my BFF. ;3
