#bi??

[petasi-anc]

When guys exist and they’re like guys and woah. When’s a guy going to look at me and think that I’m prettyyyy :(

[nsane99]

I'd like to waterboard the deity in charge of assigning this shit please and thank you.

[orallech]

Everytime a new sliver of dialogue/note offers me info about whatever colt and frank had goin on

[acatthatmakeseclairs]

TIM DRAKE IS BI???

IM SO CONFUSED YET SO HAPPY???

LIKE I DON'T REALLY READ DC COMICS BUT THIS IS NICE NEWS???

[taxlesstitties]

trying to put a label on my sexuality never fails to make me feel horrible. i know that calling myself a lesbian feels good outwardly but there's this weird nagging internally that's like "you're a fraud who's abusing this label because you dislike men and want to feel elevated above them somehow". am i insane?? because sometimes i'll see a feminine looking guy and think that maybe he's kinda attractive? but I think it's mostly aesthetic attraction? but what if it isn't and I'm just bisexual with a heavy preference toward women? because I definitely idealize a future with a woman wayyy more than i have with men since i was like ten or eleven and first was exposed to same sex attraction as a concept. but at the same time, lots of bi women prefer the idea of women over men too? like it's all over the internet about how they'll be with a man whole dreaming of a girlfriend and it's embarrassing but these fucking Twitter memes are literally making me question my whole identity now. what if I am like 3% attracted to men? that would make me technically bisexual right? and I know there's absolutely nothing wrong with having a preference and no reason to pick a side but that miniscule amount of attraction I don't think could ever make me desire a life with a man. but I hear stories about bi women who say that all the time. UNLESS I'd actually be fine with dating a man and am saying i hate them because its trendy? that's completely stupid but possible. I feel like despite what I understand intellectually, if that small bit of attraction to men is real, I have basically zero claim on the bisexual label and actually zero claim on the lesbian label. so maybe I ditch labels?? I'm not sure. maybe this is just me being a lesbian in denial because I'm attached to the bisexual label since that's how I first understood myself within the queer community. or maybe I've internalized biphobia to a point that I resent myself for being attracted to men. I wish I could be one of those go with the flow homies who doesn't care about labels and doesn't overanalyze this stuff but it literally eats away at me. I feel like a fraud. I feel like any participation i have within either of these communites is parasitic because I have no legitimate claim to the experience of being either a lesbian or bi. maybe I just identify as sapphic from now on??? the journey of self discovery and learning of ones sexuality is an absolute experience that can shift throughout a lifetime but I want CERTAINTY god damn it!!

[tiredofsatansbullshit]

my cousin just posted something saying she listens to girl in red, hayley kiyoko and sweater weather and like i do too so i know what it means and yeah

[b1rdwatch3r]

help??

I’ve been really confused about my sexuality lately

Like I’m attracted to females, but I have no desire to be with one?? But like I’m down to platonically cuddle females, and if I see a cute girl or a hot girl I think “damn she’s really cute”  but maybe it’s just aesthetic??? idk if im bisexual anymore

all I know is im really gay for one boy and he 100% has my heart