Hey! From your 100 asks ask, 1, 7, 27, 26 (or the idea of someone or something about a theoretical person you could like romantic styles), 29, 55, 100! Thanks :)
Is a kiss considered cheating?
Good question, not an easy answer. The temptation is to use a blanket ‘yeah’, because if you deliberately kissed someone else, that’s not chill.
But, as used as a trope in a lot (and i mean an exhaustive lot) of media, is where one person gets the other drunk to kiss them (bc they have a partner), or they kiss the person deliberately timed so their partner walks in, etc. that sort of thing is just manipulation on the part of a third-party, and not cheating.
but it’s all individualistic, i suppose.
2. If you had to choose one way to die, what would it be?
Fascinating question… not sure, really.
I remember thinking about it like waaaaaaaaaaay back when we got this issue of the Horrible Histories magazine, which said that druids would let their sacrifices choose which of the elements they wanted to die by (being hung -air, drowned -water, burned -fire, buried alive -earth), and I thought drowning would defs be the way to go.
Everyone wants to go peacefully or doing something heroic, but realistically it’s unlikely. but if i go down fist-fighting a demon!clown, so be it.
27. What was the last book/movie that really impressed you?
Lego Batman movie & TROLLS
I don’t think I have an active one, right now, but then I haven’t felt much in ages.
There is an amazing girl I think is awesome, and I love her, but we’re literally halfway round the world from one another. She’s clever, talented, beautiful, smart, funny and always positive (my opposite, really, no idea why she bothers with me). Very supportive and lovely.
29. Dumbest lie you ever told?
literally nothing comes to mind
55. What is your favourite flower?
Never thought about it, really, but I like the scent of wattle (except that the fucker is a massive weed issue and gives everyone else in the family hayfever so i can’t have it around anymore).
dunno, i did grow sunflowers, and some forget me nots and such, but either summer or winter kills everything off before you get too attached.
100. Can you keep a secret?
I would hope so, privacy and confidentiality are primary tenants of social work...
Yeah, I know a lot of secrets; kept them so far.