the end of what you know
Back to Middle-earth Month | 3/16/20
“Whatever betide, you have come to the end of the Gondor that you have known.” [Official Prompt] | Fool [Archetypes] | Arien/Elwing [Crack Ships] | “My desolation does begin to make a better life.” [Shakespeare Quotes] | “[LOCATION] burned.” [First Line]
Elwing leaves her tower for the last time.
Rating: G | No Archive Warnings Apply
Relationships: Arien/Elwing, past Eärendil/Elwing
Characters: Elwing, Arien, Eärendil (briefly)
Word count: 489
I've been wanting to write this since like. 2016. and i finally got around to it thanks to the B2MeM prompt for "The universality of Laws and Customs among the Eldar" (O73) on the Silm Fanon Inversion card & @absynthe--minded‘s encouragement! thanks y'all!
Disclaimer right at the top: I may have gotten a few details here and there wrong. Blame fanon for that - this is as much an exploration of the fanon around LaCE as it is the actual document Tolkien wrote.
This meta can be shortened to "FaRE," mirroring the acronym "LaCE," but my roommate @berbss suggested the alternate title "Flaws and Customs among the Eldar" which is VERY funny and I needed to mention it.
CWs: lots of cursing, frank discussions of sex and sexuality, brief mention of rape, frequent insults to JRRT, obstinate queerness on the part of OP
Okay, so LaCE can be fun for plot reasons, and I want to preface this by saying that everyone's interpretations of this document are valid and I don't mean to shit on your headcanons, but let's be real! The whole idea that sex=marriage for elves is some real Catholic bullshit and Tolkien should be ashamed of himself.
The thing about LaCE, for me, isn't just "that's stupid and I want to write about elves that fuck" (though that is also true and valid). LaCE is is buckwild in a lot of ways, and doesn't make a whole lot of sense historically or culturally.
First of all, this is a Law and/or Custom of the Eldar. Who set down that law? When? Why? If it's a custom, does that mean it's not hard and fast for everyone? And it says /right there/ that it's a law/custom of the ELDAR, which leaves out the Avari entirely.
After all, another part of this law/custom is that marriage includes vows before Manwë, Varda, and Eru, none of whom are holy to the Avari. But the Avari are still elves; does that make them heathens in Tolkien's eyes? I mean, yes, definitely, but still! The Avari have no reason to follow this particular custom and were probably doing whatever the hell they wanted with their bodies and relationships.
But back to the Eldar. This rule stinks of the Valar to me. Eru was never that direct about what he wanted, and the Valar messed up all the time, especially when it came to elves. The Ainur don't need to procreate, after all, so why would they understand sex? Defining it in ways that they could divide into "right" and "wrong" is very much in character for them. And if it's a rule set down by the Valar and followed obediently by the Calaquendi...that raises a whole lot of questions about the Exiles.
Sure, maybe they followed that rule in Valinor, and the elves who live there might still follow it as well. If this law includes the "only one spouse" rules, we have good evidence that Finwë and his generation, at the least, were subject to it. But Fëanor and the other Noldorin Exiles forsook the Valar by returning to Middle-earth. Why would they keep this law if they are abandoning so many others?
Fëanor hated Indis, though, and might have wanted to cling to this law because of that. Or maybe not, and whatever he thought about marriage laws, his kin blamed the Valar for most of their troubles and this is another way to defy them. If you're partial to Russingon, Maedhros was already up to some illicit shit, and you can't tell me that ALL the Fëanorians were celibate in Beleriand. Like, c'mon, you know that Celegorm got some. (Or maybe not, your headcanons are VALID!)
The Arafinwëans and Nolofinwëans are direct results of a second marriage and the ~bending~ of marriage laws, if not their breaking. I wouldn't be surprised if they were willing to overlook this... though maybe Galadriel, at least, stuck to the rule and passed it onto her subjects in Lothlórien later. (Or not...this one's for you, Galadriel/Melian shippers. Also, tangent: do you really think MELIAN really stuck to this law? Come on, she married an elf! She doesn't give two shits about the Valar and their laws about Ainur not having kids or whatever the fuck!)
We've established that the Vanyar and the other Valinorian elves were all about this law, questioned whether the Noldorin exiles would stick to it, and determined that the Avari had no reason to ever start following this custom. But what about the Silvan and Sindar elves who started the journey to Valinor, but never finished?
We know elves had familial relationships in Cuiviénen; Elwë and Olwë were brothers, for some reason. But the first elves just kind of...HAPPENED. Did this first generation of elves just not know to procreate until the Valar set down laws for them? Sounds fake. Maybe Elwë and Olwë weren't first generation, but literal blood brothers, and just happened to be among the most important leaders later. Or not, who really knows.
Elves had to figure this shit out on their own before Oromë stumbled across them. Maybe the Eldar adopted the laws along the way, having sex and children along their long journey to Valinor. In that case, the Silvan and Sindar elves didn't have much of a reason to stop following the custom, because they never outright rebelled, just kind of drifted away. To me, this seems like the most plausible reason that the law endured.
But over the Ages and Ages of time separated from the beings who set down the law, I can't believe that no one questioned it. What happens if elves have sex but don't want to be married? What happens if they have sex and do want to be married, but don't say the vows? Does it not count, then? Maybe not in the eyes of the Valar, but how fussed are the Silvan and the Sindar about conforming to the Valar's every whim? ESPECIALLY the Silvan, who never saw the Valar's power firsthand in the War of Wrath.
And what about the Sindar elves who followed Oropher to Eryn Galen? If the Silvan elves there had long since abandoned the tradition, would this custom get lost in Mirkwood when Oropher's people assimilated (mostly) into Silvan culture?
And this is all assuming the custom developed while on the journey to Valinor! If it didn't get set down until they arrived in Aman, only the Calaquendi ever followed this practice. How, then, would the rest of the elves learn of it? Noldorin colonialism? (Looking at you, Galadriel.) Or would they not even bother with it, whatever they think of the Valar in general?
I've written a lot already, but you know what? Let's go deeper.
What about elvish interactions with other species? There are canon elf-mortal relationships, but you can't tell me that the ONLY elf-fuckers were Tuor, Beren, and Aragorn. Sure, maybe we only KNOW about the high and mighty elf princesses and their scandalous affairs, but the Noldor were more than their princes. There were normal people there, too! Fantasy Classism dictates that only the famous relationships got written down, with whispers of others like Aegnor/Andreth and Mithrellas/Imrazôr, but come on. There were more that happened, and more peredhel than just Elrond and his family. And y'all know I'm a slut for elf/dwarf relationships! Tauriel/Kíli may be a PJ Original but like this is NOT a new idea...it's got to have happened, right?
How do these interspecies marriages work? Mortals can fuck an elf and not be married. Would the elf be married to them, but not the other way around? (I know I've seen a Gigolas post about that...) That doesn't sound legit. This whole idea is full of holes.
Besides, who says the Valar kept this law? Aside from cultural drift, it's such a normative way of looking at relationships. I'd like to think the Valar can learn and grow, especially given the disastrous rebellion of Fëanor. Let's talk polyamory for a bit: so many problems could have been solved if Finwë/Míriel/Indis could have been allowed! With the Finwëan fiasco, you think the Valar would reassess what they did wrong there!
What counts as "sex" for the purposes of sex being the same thing as marriage? Just PIV? There's a lot of sexual acts outside of that narrow definition. Is penetration the key? Because there's ways around that. Or is it orgasm? Because that doesn't necessarily require another person. If it is just PIV, I guess that would make gay elves unable to marry, but like... come on! That's some real bullshit, even for Tolkien!
What about asexual elves? Sex-repulsed elves? I've seen people claim that all Tolkien elves are demisexual, which...I have issues with, but there definitely elves with complicated relationships to sex! Are sexless marriages not valid? Even if they include vows? Consummation laws are not great, y'all...
And what about aromantic elves? Elves who have nonromantic sexual relations? Is that unholy and evil? I know Tolkien wanted his Favorite Special Perfect Species to not have any lust or sexual sin, but this is just unrealistic. Besides, Tolkien wrote flawed and fallen heroes all the time, just look at Túrin and Maedhros and Fëanor! Even IF LaCE was meant to be taken as literally as we sometimes take it, his own world and characters break his rules frequently.
What about nonromantic and nonsexual relationships? Those get brushed over a lot irl, but Tolkien's works are full of them. Just look at Frodo & Sam, probably what he intended Maedhros & Fingon to be, Legolas & Gimli, etc... Some of those people will want their relationship formalized, maybe through calling it marriage. Does that not count? Is Tolkien really going to say that these relationships he writes, often at the core of his stories, are suddenly lesser?
I can tell this is just veering into my politics around relationships in general, so let's get back on track:
The important part of this whole custom should be the love and intent behind the vows, not the act of sex. Elves can get married if they're on the run, if need be, so it's not the actual ceremony that they value. What the people involved want should be enough to make it formal in the eyes of each other and of the Valar, if that's something they care about.
When it comes down to it, sex equaling marriage is a custom and/or a law, like it says in the title of LaCE. It's not an inherently biological trait...which makes the whole thing about how elves can "see" if someone has gotten married SUPER weird. Maybe what they can really see is the marriage-bond, visible through some funky kind of magic - I could buy that, and I've played with the idea in fic before.
But I maintain that sex CANNOT equal marriage, even by Tolkien's standards. Rape is clearly not marriage, as we see in the case of Celebrían. Elvish marriage has intent and ritual behind it, certainly; that is what makes it a custom. To me, this whole idea feels like a mistranslation or misconception that occurred when mortal scholars tried to understand elvish customs.
At least, that's the in-universe explanation. The out-of-universe explanation is just that Tolkien is a fucking coward.
where the wild things are
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Warrior Maiden [Archetypes] | Beren: the scraggly, unkempt mortal [Silmarillion Fanon Trope Inversion] | promise/eastern/echo/cloud [Four Words]
Who is more wild: the clawed and fanged princess with a feral spirit, or her untamed, unkempt wife?
Rating: E | No Archive Warnings Apply
Relationships: fem!Beren/Lúthien
Characters: fem!Beren Erchamion, Lúthien Tinúviel
Brief notes: Daeron as Lúthien’s brother, monstrous!Lúthien, magical pregnancy, sexytimes!
Word count: 1k
later | after
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“All the world’s a stage...” [Shakespeare Quotes] | crush/legion/bewitching/flame [Four Words] | “As flies to wanton boys are we to the gods.” [Shakespeare Quotes]
Maedhros/Azaghal | Maedhros/Fingon | Canonical Character Death
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Later, he had been promised; Later, we will deal with this. Later, we can sort out what we've done, what we want. For now, we must focus on the battle to come.
And Maedhros listened. He obeyed, organizing and rallying and preparing. There was no other choice; he lived with the storm of emotion within himself and pushed his worries to that horizon that was Later.
But now it was Later, and there was no one left with him to sort out what he wanted.
"Maedhros. I love you."
"I know."
"And you—"
"Yes."
"..."
"Fingon—"
"Don't."
"!"
"I love you. Nothing—"
"Fingon..."
"Nothing changes that.
"...I love you. First, always, most."
"I know."
"But... Before all of—this, I thought..."
"You didn't think. Was there a Before this, or did you ever stop to think? Did I ever stop to think, or did I just blindly follow you?"
"I'm sorry—"
"No. You aren't. And I'm not, either."
"Fingon... If I die—"
"You won't."
"!"
Legions marched, but they were not enough. Maedhros knew this, had known all along. The armies of Angband were greater, and their lord cared less for their lives. It was doomed from the start, this Union of his, and Maedhros led them anyway. Into battle. Into death.
It was his fault. When Azaghâl was crushed beneath the dragon, when Fingon went up in flames, it was his fault.
The dwarves sang a dirge as they carried their fallen lord away. No matter what Azaghâl had promised, there would be no Later—Maedhros would not even be present for the funeral.
Fingon was lost entirely. Maglor hummed quiet songs of mourning, but Maedhros could not bring himself to join in. Too much of music was a prayer to the valar, and now that Maedhros had been utterly defeated, broken, robbed of all comfort and love—
Morgoth played with them, like insects he had trapped in honey. There would be no gods rushing to their rescue; to them, the Children, First- and Secondborn and Adopted, were insignificant bothers. Flies to be swatted away.
Once, Maedhros had hoped. Fingon had sung bewitching melodies and soothed him to sleep, nursed his wounds, assured him there would be time for soft contentments after—After—
The Valar watched, and did nothing. Morgoth waited, preparing to strike.
Now, shattered and scattered, they were but entertainment before the tragedy's conclusion.
How cruel it was that Maedhros was the one to survive. How cruel it was that he lived to close the show and draw the curtains before his taking his last bow into fire and death.
"You're up early."
"I—"
"Don't make excuses. You were leaving."
"...I can't stay. I shouldn't have—"
"We."
"What?"
"I said we, lad."
"I am far, far older than you."
"Then act like it."
"..."
"You weren't alone in this. I chose it. So did you."
"It is wrong."
"Which part? You so old, I so young? You so lordly, I so—hah!"
"You are lordly."
"I know it. Is it that I am khazâd?"
"No—yes."
"Well? You think you are the first of your kind to bed one of my people?"
"I do not know."
"..."
"It is—Fingon."
"Ah. The truth, at last."
"He and I, we—"
"Maedhros. Nelyofin. Mattimeo, or whatever you—"
"Don't. Not that name."
"Your scars are handsome. After last night, you should—"
"Please, Azaghâl."
"Âzyungâl. Live in the now, not in the later."
"How can I? I have seen so much—I plan for so much—"
"Bah!"
"!"
"...you shall benefit from taking a mortal lover, âzyungâl. It will teach you the joy of the present."
After, he had been promised. After our victory, we shall all come together and talk, about what you did, about—him. But before the battle, we must prepare.
Maedhros knew he had no choice but to obey. He knew too well it would be pointless to argue; it always was, with Fingon.
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