By the end of the second day on that bench, he realized he had sat all that time with his hip pressed against Birgitte’s and never once thought of trying to kiss her.
I’d never understood the admiration for Mat and Birgitte’s friendship, considering how he perceives it. For him, every woman is just an object for smiles, dances, or—if he’s lucky—kissing and bedding. It feels as if he were raised in the forest with wolves and had never spoken to a woman before, except for mating.
There is perhaps no other man in the main cast who is as blind toward women as Mat (I’m not sure if I’d call him misogynistic, but he’s definitely a fool). I love him, but he makes me so angry from time to time with his stupid philosophy.
Rand and Perrin never make such a big deal out of female friends. They treat them as ordinary friends, just with that strange chivalry about not harming women.