That's so weird to realise, cuz I'm not even bi, but I'm definitely queer (trans and ace), and I even physically, I kinda like feminine things in men (like my sister used to tell me my crush had a 'girl waist' and he does, but I think it's attractive). The boys by straight friends and my straight sister like are always like traditional broad shouldered jerks. (I also once said he had 'Claudia Black cheekbones')
I LOVE long-haired men and thinner men, and while I can appreciate some muscles on an otherwise soft, caring, kind dude, I’m not into hugely ripped bodybuilder dudes. Especially the square-jawed ones. It just... isn’t my type. And jerks? Hell no.
There was this one guy my college roommates were crazy about that was traditionally handsome (I guess, he just looked like a generic muscular dude to me) and he was a creep and all his exes said he disrespected them majorly. So I was like.... I’m staying ten feet away. But all my roommates were just like: “he’s so misunderstood! All those mean girls probably were just crazy!” Just... wow.
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