#bisexualdarling

[saintgoodlove]

do you know what happened to BisexualDarling blog?. i’m suprised she has deactivated! :(

Just found out right now and I’m devastated. I wish I knew why, but we can only guess. She was facing a lot of biphobic and antisemitic harassment on here, and who knows how much IRL antisemitism was affecting her? It’s really sad, though, and I’m currently trying to compile all the posts of hers I’ve managed to save on my own blog that really helped me. She was the reason I bothered to come back to this hellsite let alone start blogging about bisexuality. She’s been so instrumental to my own healing and I can only hope she’s doing okay. 🩷💜💙

[lorynna]

https://www.tumblr.com/monsteradarling/793110035495550976/one-thing-that-i-have-to-say-is-that-biphobia-is?source=share

"#because I know that if you claim to be "anti-Zionist" then you have more antisemitic beliefs even away from Israel"

This user legit disguises her posts to be about antisemitism when they clearly are just defending the acts of Israel. They always talk about how they never see pro palestine people mention jews in their advocacy, when she legit never speaks about the Palestinian in the genocide in her advocacy and instead talks about antisemitism some people have. Like just admit your pro Israel and a zionist.

It is very clear to me that this user is a Zionist and pro Israel, I don't think we need an official statement for that. Although I disagree with her political stance on the subject matter, I have purposefully not spoken about the Israel-Palestine conflict on here before. It's a complicated matter that I don't feel like I need to additionally be mixing in. What I do want to make clear is that I do not agree with the actions of the israelian government and that I am furious about what is going on currently in Gaza. Despite not agreeing with her posts on this topic, she has a lot of good takes and valuable insights on bisexuality that I appreciate.

[saintgoodlove]

So, even bisexualdarling deactivated...I'm really sad about it. I imagined she was about to stop posting since she didn't for more than a month, but I didn't expect her to deactivate the blog. I wonder why she wanted to erase everything, and I wonder what exactly brought her to this decision. As always, I hope she's fine, if not, I hope she'll be soon. Her blog may not exists anymore, but her contribute in the bi community still exists in me. And in many of us too.

Monstera, I you see this, thank you for everything. <3

🩷💜💙

[saintgoodlove]

Hello. I've just read the news about darling deactivating, and I'm devastated as well :( she helped me tremendously to untangle from biphobia and other bullshit. I have a backup of her posts, but didn't have time to glue the files together, if you'd like? I hope it's not creepy :( I honestly didn't want to lose anything from her blog in case tumblr banned her.

You're a lifesaver! Send me the files!

[lorynna]

monsteradarling asked you to not mention her name anymore since you're mutually blocked

first of all, we are not mutually blocked. she decided to block me, because I got an anon ask a while back about her, to which I hesitantly replied that although I don't agree with her political stance on the IP conflict she does have really good takes about bisexuality which I appreciate her for. I don't know why that pissed her off as much as it did, since that was everything I had ever said at that point in time.

when I mentioned her recently, it was to point out a certain hipocrisy, since a biphobic "radfem" decided it's cool to censor criticism from fellow bisexual women by hiding reblogs from public view. also I repeated some of the points monsteradarling already made on that topic as to give her credit and not steal her arguments but to highlight them instead.

I don't have to agree with someone on another political stance to recognize when they make good points on a different important issue.

[80zcomedownmachine]

i never change,, nine selfies of 2k15- tagged by @xeraphic & tagging @indiasey @bisweptuality @thydudeth @bisexualdarling :@)