Bisexual Beauties
Hope everyone has a good calm morning ! Remember you guys its okay to be you its okay to find your sexuality confusing its okay to struggle with certain aspects with your sexuality. Don’t let the stereotypes of being bi stop you from expressing yourself. Its okay to miss being with your partner's opposite gender but its not okay to cheat. People don’t get that its okay to miss being with the opposite gender to your partner boy or girl and to be scared of missing out of being with your partners opposite gender. People who compare themselves to straight people or gay people are naive they are just so scared of the stereotype and being different they need to belong or fit in.
That argument of “bisexual is just like being gay or straight when your with ur GF you’re still attracted to other girls but you don’t want to be with them or anything’ its not like that. Say you love oranges and you got a good orange in ur hand that you’re happy with obviously you wont want to replace that orange with another ORANGE or even think about it, Bisexuality is having to choose between oranges and APPLES yet you like both, and when you choose an orange you’ll never taste an apple the orange will never be green it’ll never have a crunch. You wont look at other oranges cause you have a good orange that you love with all of you but some days you’ll wonder if you are missing out on APPLES or if monogamy is for you. You’ll feel guilty and horrible that you have these thoughts because you’d literally die for your partner that you love so much. But that confusion you get and that slightly missing and wondering about “apples” is NORMAL. You are not horrible the more you try to fight these thoughts the more anxious you become just accept them they wont eat you alive or ruin your relationship because you have willpower, control and you are Choosing to be faithful.
So whats the harm in establishing those feelings? Its easier to not have them or to be attracted to one gender and stay faithful but its POWERFUL to be attracted to both and choose to give up a WHOLE gender for your loved one.Also don’t let anyone tell you that if you’re wondering about being with a boy (and ur with a girl) or being with a girl (and ur with a boy) then you must not be happy with ur relationship because" I am attracted to other men but I never wonder whats it like to be with them because i’m happy with my husband" " I am attracted to other women but I never get this overwhelming questions about being with other women cause i’m happy with my wife" STFU its not the same you could be the happiest and you’d still get those overwhelming feelings and questions.