Ive noticed a trend that is prevalent in several generations of church goers. Women marry or move in with guys who have no drive for themselves who leach off the goodness of expectant ladies in the congregation. Because of the God given trait in every woman to be a nurturer, she will lay with her man and treat him good as a tool to motivate him to do or be better. However this often backfires and Concretizes the mans ego to get what he can while producing as less as possible. My sisters don't fool yourself, You can't unGay, motivate, or inspire a man by having sex with him! Your actions will only solidify his spot on the sofa. You have to love him enough to let GOD work on him!!! #BishopDLsaidIt #loveyourself #letGodDoIt #theconnectionchurchcali