#blacklist stuff

[secretlystephaniebrown]

*claps hands* also! Since I made that post about things I’d like people to tag, probably should make this list of things I tag, and then make it reply-able so folks can tell me what they need me to tag! No shame here please, I’m really willing to tag anything. 

I generally tag ships, fandoms, characters in general, and then for triggers I tag: (below the cut)

realistic blood (I don’t usually bother with more cartoony stuff, but if you ever feel like I’m being too lenient please let me know)

flashing gifs

fast gifs

gifs outside of gifsets

kissing

shirtlessness

nudity

nsfw in general

guns (except in RvB bc of their prominence in the series, I recommend blacklisting Red vs Blue if guns are an issue)

hospitalization

parental death

sexual violence

I tend to use my #Steph Loves Food tag for things like recipes or food photosets, but if food is otherwise mentioned or present I’ll use a warning

various IRL things are tagged as they come (periods, family incidents, etc.) 

I also tag for certain actors and actresses, if you want me to add one to my list just let me know, in the replies or in my askbox 

in the past I’ve tagged close ups of eyes, mentions of sex, cursing, and probably other things I’m forgetting. If you ever need me to bring any of those back just let me know!

what else would you like me to tag?

[secretlystephaniebrown]

things to tag:

I’ve never made one of these before, but I’ve got a lot of new mutuals and I generally want to put this out there

if we’re mutuals, please tag:

all ships. I refuse to air my NoTP list because that would end in me getting drawn and quartered but if you just tag all ships, either with a quirky ship tag or with the generic ship name, I will be content. 

self harm. PLEASE. 

ship negativity. there are some ships I’m all for criticizing, ships I’m all for debating about, but there are some ships where I really am just here to have a good time shipping. so if you could tag, preferably with ship specific negativity but a generic ship negativity tag is fine if you don’t want to, I would really appreciate it. (but Steph, why can’t I just use #negative? bc I worry about my mutuals and I usually read #negatives to make sure you’re okay. and I’m also a salty lady who often jumps at a chance to yell about how awful things are.) (if you’re going “but Steph, you hate this ship as well and I only tag ship negativity for you”, all I ask is that you use your best judgement. XD)

spoilers within a reasonable time of something airing/being released. I usually just blacklist the fandom before I catch up though so don’t stress yourself about this one please. 

[dustiesmasseffect]

Mini PSA

I got tons of lovely mail in my Ask box today and I really want to show my appreciation. However, I do realize that’s not what most of you are here for!

If you want to escape the onslaught for this evening, you can blacklist:

#Ask answered

Or if you’re using tumblr savior copy + paste this into your blacklist:

(ﾉ◕ヮ◕)ﾉ*:･ﾟ✧

HERE’S MY TUMBLR SAVIOR POST if you want/need more info on that!

[criminallycactus]

For myself as a reminder you can ignore

Things you have to tag Food irl body image loud things gif gore nsfw bugs gross stuff memes dhmis irl people shows and such

[all4yug]

Yall realize that yall dont have to read things i post right? They're tagged for a reason

[spookitake]

just a note for my mutuals i have very terrible memory and i will forget more specific triggers so if i reblog smth that makes you uncomfortable or triggers you please please please let me know, or you can even unfollow me but i’m trying very hard to remember!

[calenhadd]

i updated my about page with some blacklist info so i guess i should post it here too; please tag bluespace (or rly gifs with bluespace) and alcoholism. thank you!

[mishnjay]

you know how I can tell a post is your edit before I view the source, fe. when i see the pic it makes my heart stop. K bye. Also I love and miss you. <333

awwwww *sobs* that’s so nice of you to say gee!! do you mean yesterday’s edit? i wasn’t sure about it bc i didn’t do any editing here in a looong time but it was anja’s birthday so i had to break my hiatus. i miss you all too btw :*