Having someone who you considered your best friend berate you because you needed time alone and they were in love with you and now all their friends hate you bc they play the victim card is insane..... tumblr is the ONLY form of social media I even feel remotely safe on anymore bc only like 4 people I know irl follow me. Like, you tell me you love me, tell me to take time to myself, I say I need time by myself, so then you flip out and start trying to pry things from me I’m not ready to talk about because you have the “right” to know and “fix” me is.... not okay. Let’s not get started on crossing physical boundaries either, bc to them me defending myself is worse than her trying to kiss me every time I said no. Wild fucking world we live in, ain’t it?