#body advice

[kisskissbanggang]

Is it true that vagins can taste sweet? It is unrealistic for me.

I double-checked with Mister because he has more first-hand experience, but we say yes. It's not sweet like sugary sweet... But like wine can be sweet, you know? Trust no human that says it's sweet like candy and means it. Honestly and interestingly, sugar-sweet vaginas can be signifiers of diabetes!

[sexy-muppet]

Unofficial Guide To Loving Your Body (Feel free to add to)

1. BUILD YOUR BODY CITY New York city didn't spring up overnight. No town does. Body love is the same way. It's also the same way in that it's built around one key thing. Cities are built where there's resources, like rivers, fertile land, or gold. Find the rivers of your body. Find one thing you like about your body. It can be anything. It doesn't have to be big. You can start with your legs, or you can start with a freckle on your lip. Once you find your "river" build on it! How does the rest of your body compliment that one feature you chose? Perhaps you're pals skin makes the freckle stand out more, or your hips look nice with your legs. You just continue to find things about your body that compliment each other, and you build in every direction you can. 2. BODY TALENT/ENJOYMENT What do you like to do? How is your body good at doing that? This one can be a little bit trickier, because sometimes your body hates what you love, like a violinist with a bad back. The cool thing about it though is you have a lot of options here. Your activity doesn't even have to be something impressive like sports or music, it can be as random as climbing a tree (that's what I used) You find something you enjoy doing and then you think about how your body is good at doing it and helps you do it. 3. """"LIE"""" TO YOURSELF Compliment your body everyday. Think good things about your body everyday. It will feel like you're lying, which can be discouraging, but it will get better. This is a more passive and slow approach. Like eroding away rocks, it's slow but powerful. 4. ACCEPT COMPLIMENTS This one is similar to 3, in that you'll feel like it's lies, and it's a slow process, but it still works. When someone compliments you, don't dismiss it any way. Accept the compliment from them, and then shut down your negative thoughts. It's almost certain that you'll say thank you but think they're lying. When you mentally dismiss the compliment, just correct yourself, or remind yourself that if they didn't mean it, they wouldn't have said it. 5. DONT.👏COMPARE.👏YOURSELF.👏TO.👏OTHERS.👏 This is such a crucial one! So many /different/ people are beautiful (you included) and by comparing yourself to someone you think that because you look /different/ you couldn't possibly be beautiful. It's sooo wrong though! There are so many types of beauty out there and so many /different/ things that are beautiful, that you can't assume you're not beautiful because you're not the same. 6. CUTE CLOTHES/UNDERWEAR Sometimes all you need is some cute underwear and a nice pair of jeans to help you appreciate your body more. I think of it as treating your body. Dress to impress yourself. These aren't perfect methods for everyone by any means, because we all function and think differently, they're just a few ways that I used to help myself! Like I said in the title, please feel free to add your own methods.

[whoneedssexed]

Im a 19 year old and I'm still a virgin. Im 100% ready for a cock to enter me but I'm worried that guys aren't into thick girls ? I have thick thighs an ass and boobs but I have a little tummy. Is that a turn off ?

Of course not. You are going to find someone who is going to love you for you. You just have to find the right person and foster that relationship.

Don’t let other people make you insecure about your body. It is beautiful and it is yours. If someone tells you they won’t date you because of your weight, then they aren’t worth your time at all.

Keep your chin up and keep looking. There is a person out there looking for someone just like you. :)

I would know myself because I’m a very heavy cis woman and I have two beautiful people in my life who love me for me and for my body how it is.

-BlankMuse

[gurl]

12 Biological Differences Between Men And Women You Didn’t Know About

Growing up, I was constantly told that men and women are fundamentally different – not just in more emotional ways (like how we act, what we want, how we date, etc.), but also in legitimate biological ways. As it is 2016 and gender rules are starting – very, very slowly – to fade away, it’s easy to start thinking there actually aren’t that many legit differences between men and women. This may be true in certain cases when it comes to how both sexes act or what we want out of life, but it isn’t true when it comes to our bodies. There are many, many ways men and women are different biologically, and some of them are actually super interesting.

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[s-lc]

I have this continued thought that I will never be good enough. I have this flaw my whole body in the whole spectrum of beauty defined by society is perfect. I am skinny I am slightly tan, I have check bones for days I am short. Never taller then the man. But I have a flaw. And no one realizes how hard it is to live by. I have a big nose. And it brings everything I have stated into the lowest point a person can be. How dose one overcome such thing?

By taking control of one’s mind. The only thing holding you back and the only thing stopping you from getting over this disapproval of yourself is (ironically) yourself. I think of all people we often fall victims to being the biggest barrier and bully to ourselves in life. What we don’t understand and fail to appreciate it just how much changing your mind set and sticking to it can make a different. Of course it is hard to overcome things we don’t like about ourselves, or doing things that push our comfort zone, but if you do it for long enough and keep persevering anything is possible! It’s a matter of accepting that there is no ‘perfect’ person, characteristic or personality. Every single person is different and what everyone perceives as perfect is different. Your perception of perfect means just as much as the next person, SO, if you believe you are perfect, then guess what? You ARE perfect. It’s all a matter of your mindset and taking control of your thoughts and actions. And in the famous words of Tyrion Lannister “once you’ve accepted your flaws, no one can use them against you.” I have all the faith in the world that you can and will learn to accept yourself as long as you persevere at doing so and loving yourself. Sending love xxxxx

[gurl]

15 Bad Beauty Habits You Didn’t Realize You’ll Regret Later In Life

more beauty hacks!

[prettylillpeach]

Your body is a puppy

Stay with me here. It’s very late but I had this thought and I felt it important to share while it’s fresh in my mind.

Your body is like a puppy– at least, that’s how you should treat it. Think about it. When you get a puppy, you care for it, you feed it good food, you walk it, and you pet it, and it grows into a healthy dog who will love you unconditionally and give you plenty of kisses. Your body is the same way. You deserve to feed your body the food it needs to grow and be healthy. You deserve to walk your body. You deserve to pet your body (yes, this is also important for maintaining your health, and your wellbeing. A win/win if you ask me). These things allow your body, as well as your mind, to grow properly.

Your body is also like a puppy when it is abused. A dog can be abused but still show unconditional love and wag its tail. Your body is the same way. Even when you beat it and cut it and feed it unhealthy things, it still heals you when you are hurt– building scabs like kisses over your wounds. It carries you everyday, even when it has done more for you than you have for it.

Now in no way am I condoning animal abuse; nor am I condoning body abuse. We all have our problems. But we do anything for our furry friends, so why don’t we do the same for our bodies? Your body is a puppy. It deserves good food, water, walks, and sleep. Challenge your body, like you would while teaching a puppy a new trick. Give it these things, and it will love you and reward you for the rest of your life.