I've seen queens become peasants with self inflicted obsession of a title. The pursuit of being his wife ,his girlfriend , his baby mama overshadowed the true title of being queen of oneself . A significant other should not complete you they should only compliment who you are. That person will never compensate for the lack of love you have for yourself. The reason most situations never develop or fail is due to not knowing what love means to yourself. Knowledge of self is vital. Knowing your value and who you truly are addressing issues and seeing why you are the way you are will give you clearer vision in the pursuit of bliss. How can you expect someone to love you when you don't love yourself. No person will make up for your daddy issues family issues self esteem issues these are all things that need to be addressed to self . You will never appreciate anything good. You will be drawn to negative cause it's all you ever known. You will subconsciously be drawn to those who you know it won't work cause you yourself are incomplete. Once you address this no title given by another will hold vital . Crown yourself first. Queens attract Kings #Freshism #bornkingbredlegendary #knowledgeofself #loveyourlife Link to spoken word poem is in bio and below https://soundcloud.com/bobbyfresh/the-pursuit-of-bliss (at Richmond International Airport (RIC))