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Boston Girls!!!
Has anyone else gotten weird stalker messages today from multiple numbers???? I’m freaking out. Person claims we met on SA, I haven’t been active on there since FOSTA/SESTA and haven’t given anyone new my info in almost a year.
Unsure of what to do, have been getting messages all day and haven’t responded to any of them.
Tech Challenged SDs
They just make it too easy. He reached out to me first on SA, I have his town, state (local), occupation (physician), photo (eh, definitely outdated though) and a potential first name.
So, of course, I proceed to the State Board and look up all physicians in my state, browse by county, sort by name, and get to work Googling.
Within 5 minutes, I have his practice, salary, 3 biographies from various medical websites detailing likes and interests, and dozens of photos. Not to mention, I have his real age (75, not 48), photos of his wife and children (prefer not to answer my ass), and a glimpse of his personality (patient reviews are not good).
All of this from, “Hi, I’m a physician” and his SA profile.
Advice needed
My plan to turn vanilla into sugar has ended horribly. It’s been six months and all I’ve gotten is a headache. I need some advice on how to better next time.
Background: Met B on bumble, he is 10 years my senior (super young, mistake #1), and works in the medical field. He makes about 200k a year and his family has money. He’s also very naive and an ass, no other woman in her right mind would date him. We’ve been together for 6 months and all I got was a $100 perfume set for my birthday that smelled disgusting. So disappointing.
I could have put more effort into the relationship I suppose, but I need a clear start-to-finish guide on turning vanilla into sugar.
Can I salvage this mess? Or should I just end it?
Sugar Resolutions
1. Master the art of turning vanilla into sugar. I’m surrounded by doctors in my vanilla life, so it’s a good skill to know.
2. Engage with a different type of POT. I usually go for the old, white medical doctors and it’s getting a bit blasé.
3. Raise my assets, raise my value. I have the brains and a pretty face, but I have gotten fattttt. I’ve had to compensate by adjusting my expectations and I am at my wits end. I am a luxury, I will be treated as such.
SA is a garbage fire
I don’t know if it’s the holidays or mercury coming out of retrograde, but these men on SA have it so twisted. You pay my bills and I don’t vomit when you pull out your liver spotted dick. That’s the deal.
Was offered $100 for a meet (I thought he meant lunch), then he said I’d have to host. Realized he meant THAT kind of meet, said I don’t host to just shut it down right then and there. Then this asshat says “it’s okay, the $100 will go to a hotel room.” ..... leaving me with nothing... I shit you not, he was dead serious.
Saddest part is, you know he’s gotten away with this before. Collectively we need to come up with a minimum rate list so this shit stops happening.
