#boy issues

[seokstrivia]

what’s something a boy does, that gives you the ick?

[crybby-savior]

I’m in that strange stage of wanting someone to love me so bad that I’m going about it the wrong way.

I fell hopelessly for a guy who I believe only wanted sex from me. And my failed attempt to keep his attention was by giving him exactly what he wanted. I see he is still trying to hold on to the eagerness of getting to know me that he had in the beginning...but since we fucked I can see the shift. Even his texts aren’t the same...the vibe is not the same.

I never want to seem like an easy girl, but I guess I just set myself up for it and now I’m feeling stupid. I could’ve saved this all by saving no but I didn’t. I let him explore my body and now I’m left feeling emptied out and stupid. I feel even more stupid because I am going back into his arms the next time he calls. And I’m starting to think that He won’t. He is capable of getting plenty of girls while I struggle just to keep his attention.

I want him to be honest with me. But I think he is just sticking around because he is too nice to kick me to the curb. He isn’t a bad guy, I will give him that. He is super nice. But it feels different.

[esthetismes]

Okay I have to get this off my chest somewhere or it'll haunt me

Story time lmao!! So last year this guy started working at my job and since it’s retail unfortunately the cute boy quota is low. So naturally everyone was in love with him, me included. We spoke at work but other than that I let it slide cause you know, who stands a chance? Fast forward to today, after a tinder match and multiple hangouts, and he’s one of my closest friends. My crush on him is long gone, mind you, we’re too different to date but we’re so good as friends. THEN, last night, my brain decides it wants to throw in some romance and I have a dream about him and I at my parents’ house?? In it, my parents gave their approval and we slept in the same bed like in one of those rom coms and we were touching hands and it was gross and romantic and you could tell there was something There™. So I wake up in a state of bliss and it all feels so real and I’m just?? Still feeling that way now lol. I know it’ll never happen and that it was just a dream but that whole ordeal has got me thinking about him like That™ again lmao and it’s gotta stop….

[strainedcherry]

i hate pretty boys. like go away and don’t look at me those long eyelashes, pretty face and silky hair. AND GOD IF THEY AVOID EYE CONTACT I FEEL LIKE IM GOING CRAZY!!! i swear everyday that i wouldn’t fall for a boy, they’re irresponsible and childish but damn.

[kaiourlordandsavior]

For those who know me personally, just know im more disappointed in myself than you (meaning i like the guy again which i shouldnt but this year as a whole has really be playing wit me so) the self deprecation really be settling in now AHHA

[anxietys-room]

There's this guy that I think is really cute. I don't know his name just that he's damn fine. The girls in my class(they're kinda like sisters) think we rly fit together and one of them even asked if she should get his number for me. I thought that was really cute, I rejected that tho. I just know, that no matter what I'll never have the guts to talk to him or anything. I'm just a hopeless case when it comes to boys ... and girls. Any help on how I should handle all of this ..?

Maybe, if you can, befriend him. Introduce yourself, ask him about his hobbies, interests, life goals, etc. (just don't go on too strong). Be friendly, and maybe be like "hey, you seem pretty cool. Can I have your number so we can talk more?" It could be worth it! I get being nervous around him, but you'll never get to know him unless you put yourself out there. I believe in you! Keep us updated! :)

Does anyone else have advice?

-Mod Alyssa❣

[tishyrose]

28/01/19

There’s a very real possibility that my boyfriend is going to jail today.

I’m going to have to figure out how to get to wherever they may send him without having a panic attack about it.

I sincerely hope he just gets community service.

I’m not going to lie, he did do something wrong and he does need to learn from it but what he really needs to address is his mental health issues. Hopefully the judge will see that he’s not a bad person and he’s really just struggling to live through every day without trying to kill himself.

He’s a twat but I love him so much.

[theweepingwillowblog-blog]

so I loved a boy,

let’s call him K.

K was amazing, we were so goofy and adorable. his smile lite up my world, whilst i fell into the depth of his deep brown eyes. we’re no longer together, all of his friends say he was the best version of himself when we were together. I miss him so very much, but K and I will find a way back together. if it is meant to be.

but if it’s not meant to be then i’ll be okay too.