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Breakup Survival Guide: How to Deal With Heartbreak

Breakups suck. Even if you know it was the right thing. Even if it was mutual.Even when you know they weren’t your person. It aches. If your heart feels tender, tired, angry, confused, or in pieces- this is for you. 1. Let It Hurt Feel it. All of it. Cry. Stare into space. Cuss out the universe. Miss them. Miss the idea of them.Wonder if you should’ve done more. Regret that you ever…

Breakup Survival Guide: How to Deal With Heartbreak

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Day 1: Friends

So this is how being single feels like? This is how it’s done, huh. After almost two years I’ve never felt so free, and I don’t know if that’s suppose to be a good thing. Somehow, freedom creases fear in my brain, it makes me worry, it makes me wonder. But my friends keep me sane. And I know their tough and in a way, their strength erases the fear that lies behind my new found freedom. They’re like my instruction manuals, because after long months of being in a couple, I didn’t know how to use my single pass, I don’t know how to be happy outside of the lovey-dovey circle but they showed me how, and Oh God, does it feel great. 

You need to surround yourself with happy people, with people that sees you and your flaws and will  accept you still. And those are your friends, true friends. So, day 1, you need the company of your friends.