Tinderbox, tiger, stitches, anomaly :)
Tinderbox - What do you cherish most? Definitely people. There are very few people in the world who are very important to me, but once you’re in that category, you’re there forever.
Tiger - What is your bravest moment? Oh man, there are a few of these. My anxiety makes it so that a lot of things require a lot of bravery, but I’ve learned to expect and accept that as part of doing things that are worth doing. This includes talking to people, so tbh if we’ve chatted on Tumblr, I’ve probably had to talk myself up into messaging you, haha (fwiw, it’s always 100% worth it, I love the friends I’ve made here <3). I think honestly though, my bravest moments have been standing up for myself with family members. I come from an emotionally abusive family, and I’ve had a couple of times where I’ve just had to say “no, fuck this,” and walk away for my own good. It’s never ever easy, but it’s always worth it to live honestly to myself.
Stitches - What kind of clothing do you wear? Mostly very comfortable clothing! I have pretty sensitive skin, so I really prefer to wear soft things and cotton. I wear lots of jeans and soft-wash shirts or flannels, often in plaid. In the winter, I LOVE sweaters. For work, I’m usually in a button-up with a cardigan on top. Mostly cool colors, I have a lot of blues and greys that can all match together - the less effort it takes to put clothes together in the morning, the better tbh.
Anomaly - What do you find unique about yourself? I’m not really sure, it’s hard to answer this question without sounding like kind of a douche, haha. I guess I’d say I have a sort of tenacity - without putting too fine a point on it, I’ve been through a lot of shit, and I have an awareness that I can live and thrive on the other side of that. I see hard stuff coming and I think “ok, this is going to suck, but it’s going to be over one day, and I’m going to get through it.” It’s kind of the only option we have, isn’t it? People often tell me that I seem very calm (almost too calm), even though I am roiling inside - I guess this is a strength I have, to push things aside and just survive when I need to. (oh god, that was the MOST CAPRICORN ANSWER, I’m so sorry)