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pulling myself out of the ‘its complicated’ relationship woes by my corset lacing.

#i am probably gonna add more bones bc it feels kinda unsupportive atp #but i dont wanna undo it to add a layer of fabric lmfaooo #also the back was meant to have more of a gap so i can reduce a little. bc i have some chub and wanted to experiment w that #but something changed in between the first fitting and now. so rip #i am reusing the busk and bones and lacing and grommets from my original. and its all fabric i already had #just needed an updated fit.#jordan talks #breakup chronicles #idk is it a breakup . i have made my feelings known that it shouldnt be but i cant just stay still and wait so #idk if the wrinkles are bc of uneven handsewing tension or . lack of support . we will seee haha #i am handsewing this bc tbh i find it relaxing

Didn't wanna look at the hole my ex knocked into my closet door during an argument anymore so I put a dinosaur party sign over it. No horrors here, just a dinosaur party 😎

#your local garbage beast #breakup chronicles

update for everyone that cared:

After I got home last night, he didn’t even acknowledge me, I was able to shower/sleep in peace. When I left this morning it was much the same, though he was feeding my cat after just chastising me yesterday for having him feed my animals when I was unhappy in the relationship??? whatever

All of my animals seem to be in good health, nothing of mine has been trashed (yet) and I already am feeling in so much of a better mental health spot than I have in almost two years. It’s crazy how light and relieved and happy I feel.

I will not allow myself to feel sad about the loss until he is gone/moved out. If he knows he can manipulate me, he will, and I don’t want to give him an opening.

Thanks for anyone that cared/knows previously what I’ve been dealing with, it’s going to be a shitty next few months swinging bills and feeding myself but I’ll figure it out. I always do.

#personal #breakup chronicles #feeling like elsa today #THE COLD NEVER BOTHERED ME ANYWAY

instagram algorithm has adjusted itself to breakup content which is both. good and bad . anyways im seeing a whole new genre of bad psych takes. what is the deal with their obsession with anxious and avoidant attachment styles and also the term ‘no contact’. also why did a white girl who calls herself a shamanic healer follow me 😭😭

#girl i dont want ur help #guess i liked one too many tarot videos to cope 😔#also getting bad takes abt npd ……. stop arm chair diagnosing my ex .#jordan talks #breakup chronicles #sad bit is i desperately want to make fun of this to him 😔

Official breakup day 2: I thought it was going to be really hard for me to cope cause it's my day off for the week and he's usually *always* around (he's been unemployed for pretty much the whole time we've lived in CO) but it was totally fine I slept in cause I had a migraine (which he usually comments on until I get up) and got a gyro and a slurpee and hit the gym and now that my brother's home we're gonna watch Seinfeld and I'm going to knit. I guess after months of him being horrible it's actually really nice to have a day off where I can not worry about anything at all.

#breakup chronicles #nature is healing #your local garbage beast #woah maybe i did deserve better all along

sometimes it really does feel like my adhd is the reason i got broken up with and it sucks a lot

#like he tried to make a point that it wasnt and it was about how he felt #but like it kinda is. like the things u resented were. manifestations of my disorder.#ugh.#jordan talks #breakup chronicles

One thing about my parents that is like strange to confront . something u never really would even think about . theyve never had a long term relationship end the way mine did. theyve been married since they were 20. they have no idea……. what this feels like ??? they perhaps are more familiar with grief at least. They are also of course. my parents. parents love to be like . you should get married. when are u gonna have kids. whatever. theyre not as bad about that as some people but they were saying today I should go out on dates ….. get back out there... 😭😭 its been TWO MONTHS after a FIVE YEAR relationship! let me mope !

#jordan talks #i have very barely gotten to the point where ive started to feel sad less often #breakup chronicles #also the dating pool around here. 👎🏻👎🏻👎🏻👎🏻#also i still love that guy. sorry. cant switch that off.#i want to spend time w my friends and alone i dont want to date lol

i used to like comfort my friend about her anxiety w her boyfriend by like talking about times i was like that w my bf but my brain was just being silly but now idk what to say anymore bc he broke up with me incredibly suddenly . like maybe ur brain is right maybe he will leave i dont know anymore

#even knowing the reasoning behind it still feels insane .#jordan talks #breakup chronicles #idk dude dont ask me i dont understand it .#ofc i cant say that to her but i also dont really know what to say now #like . itll be fine ! <- insincere #i mean im sure itll be fine for her but #does that man understand how much he has fucked up my perception of romantic love and trust. does he know #i dont think he does !!

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