*real quotes from modern day feminists after I told them I was SA'd by a woman*
"Still women are more likely to be SA'd so thats why its talked about more, and when a man is SA'd its usually by ANOTHER MAN"
"Are you sure you're not lying just to prove your dumb point?"
"Only 9% of SA victims are men though..."
(after I described what happened) "well its not as bad as what women go through with men"
*basically the same as someone describing their experience with depression and someone jumps in and starts screaming about starving children in poverty because they have it worse, even though starving children barely had anything to do with the depressed persons experience*
"no feminist is making fun of you, its mostly other men who make fun of SA victims"
"cry incel" (how can I be an incel when I'm gay lol)
"you're just using your bad experience as an excuse to hate women, I don't even think you actually were SA'd and are just spewing BS to make yourself look more sympathetic"
"you cant blame all women though 🥺" (I know but why do feminist women blame all men 90% of the time?)
"this is peak misogyny" (all I said was that I was critical of feminism due to how feminists have reacted to my SA experience, never once have I said I hated all women lol)
I’m sorry you were SA’d and i hope your life is better now. The road to recovery is a long and bumpy one, but i can tell you from experience that once you reach it, it gets a hell of a lot better.
As far as the feminists’ reaction to your story, it’s sadly very common for them to downplay male victimization. Idk if you’ve heard of this story before, but back in the 1970s, feminist Erin Pizzey realized, after talking to female victims, that most domestic violence cases were mutual and tried to open up an abuse shelter for men. A whole army of feminists shut down the shelter and harassed Erin for 15 years, threatening to beat her up (or worse) for her “misogynistic crime”.
I told one radfem i was sexually harassed by a guy and abused by my ex-girlfriend, but i’d gotten over it and didn’t hate them for it. you can probably guess which one the radfem totally ignored and which one she shamed me for.