it took me forever to realize and get over this and i’ve been thinking how to process this for weeks now but:
you don’t have to change for people who use to like you when you were more [insert compliment] whenever they haven’t changed at all or for any reason. people change. personalities change. just don’t change yours to make people like you.
yes you should try and see what happened to constructively better yourself if you really were a problem but you shouldn’t take shit from people who you can’t see being in your life five years from now because i can guarantee your money back that those are the kinds of people are looking for nice types to use and abuse.
want to be able to state your thoughts now instead of being quiet? fuck em. let it rip.
want to say “stop i don’t appreciate that” instead of “no thanks” bc just saying no thanks makes it sound passive? do it babe
want to cancel expensive plans to sleep in and take care of yourself? good
and if they get angry? or talk shit?
they can die mad
good night
